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各有各的风险啦

lalala0808(LALALA)

回国找的话，你怎么能保证她不是因为想出来而跟你结婚呢？在这面找，如果你有个不错的工作，怎么能保证她不是冲着你的钱来的呢？如果你没有好工作，你又怎么能确定她是实心实意想与你结婚，安安分分跟你过日子呢？但是远处的你了解不到，只能凭亲朋好友介绍，但介绍就会有偏差，又不能经常回国，联系就变成了email，谁能确保在发email的同时，她正坐在别人的腿上呢？但我想在这里能好些，就是因为彼此互相在一个城市，让时间检验彼此的真感情，再说如果是骗子，以你独闯世界这么多年的经验，不小太长时间，她就会现出原形。你说呢？祝你早日找到你的白雪公主！

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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 大家好！请大家帮忙参谋一下。 -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-17 {250} (#1519893@0)
小弟来加拿大一年多了，现在有一份不错的技术工作（年薪3万多），但感觉生活在这里很无聊。本来以为可以在这边找到合适的对象，但每天打工接触的人很少，根本没机会。大家说说，我是该回国找个对象呢还是继续在这里熬下去。如果现在回去的话，最长可在国内待多久。谢谢!

甭急。。慢慢熬~~ -fruitopiazhang(Fruitopia); 2003-12-18 (#1521810@0)
找对象可以回国找，过日子要回这边来过。 -baygirl(冰淇凌); 2003-12-18 (#1522015@0)

感谢回帖。我也是这样想的，最好明年把我lay off, 我就回国呆上一两年，找个合适的，再回来过日子。 -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-19 (#1523153@0)

Can I give you some suggestion? You'd better consult the laws at first to see what responsibilities you will have to take. -yangtse(Yangtse); 2003-12-19 (#1523217@0)
By the way, ruby92(桃逃在线) seems to be a good girl though I don't know her in real life, why don't you ask for an opportunity of meeting her, you guys are both in Toronto, right? -yangtse(Yangtse); 2003-12-19 (#1523218@0)

thank you for your suggestion. ruby92(桃逃在线) seems she is a good girl. by the way , how can I contact her. -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-20 (#1523830@0)

我是不是目标最大啊？哈哈。其实我觉得多伦多有很多很好的单身。就象你说的一样，大家的接触面太小了，特别有工作以后。。。 -ruby92(桃逃在线); 2003-12-20 {211} (#1524084@0)
以后要是再有人组织活动，就多参加一些活动叭，反正你一时半回也回不去。先再这里努力一下，不行在回国也不迟。当然如果你很有把握，那就回国叭。反正两个人能不能合的来，是要在现实生活中交往才知道的。It always takes time.
wow! finally she post herself photo ! I would duel with ldj(独行天下) for her! :-) -eagle_no1(瞎起哄); 2003-12-20 (#1524235@0)

"wow! finally she post herself photo !" ???? Where ? I want to see it, too. Because I want to know what I look like. You duel ? For me? Go to sleep, you silly! ：) You don't even know me. -ruby92(桃逃在线); 2003-12-20 (#1524379@0)

this should follow #1524169,btw you should looks like #1522805 which like, -eagle_no1(瞎起哄); 2003-12-21 (#1524505@0)

are you sure? -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-21 (#1524619@0)

ask xslu(老程序员@醒世录) -eagle_no1(瞎起哄); 2003-12-21 (#1524621@0)

我是恐龙，很拽的恐龙！不要惹我嗷！ -ruby92(桃逃在线); 2003-12-21 (#1524756@0)

都是我不好，无奈覆水难收，请你喝茶或打边炉赔罪好不好？ -xslu(老程序员@醒世录); 2003-12-22 {36} (#1526774@0)
其实你挺漂亮的，千万不要这样说自己。

谁说的，我又丑又凶！ -ruby92(桃逃在线); 2003-12-22 {32} (#1526866@0)
大叔，你不要给我找麻烦行不行？！

怎么和索菲亚一个口气呢？ -xslu(老程序员@醒世录); 2003-12-23 (#1527204@0)

老鹰一号，你错了啊，我说是#1509569啊。 -xslu(老程序员@醒世录); 2003-12-22 (#1526762@0)

o, come on! I am waiting for you . -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-21 (#1524647@0)

Sorry, I am not living in Toronto and I don't know anyone on this forum in real life. You'd better find some way by yourself to catch her, hehe... -yangtse(Yangtse); 2003-12-21 (#1524453@0)

I don't agree with you. did you know how risk is it? as I know, much risker than looking for a good girl here. Good luck! -lalala0808(LALALA); 2003-12-20 (#1523898@0)

why? can you tell me the points. -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-20 (#1524103@0)

各有各的风险啦 -lalala0808(LALALA); 2003-12-21 {520} (#1524414@0)
回国找的话，你怎么能保证她不是因为想出来而跟你结婚呢？在这面找，如果你有个不错的工作，怎么能保证她不是冲着你的钱来的呢？如果你没有好工作，你又怎么能确定她是实心实意想与你结婚，安安分分跟你过日子呢？但是远处的你了解不到，只能凭亲朋好友介绍，但介绍就会有偏差，又不能经常回国，联系就变成了email，谁能确保在发email的同时，她正坐在别人的腿上呢？但我想在这里能好些，就是因为彼此互相在一个城市，让时间检验彼此的真感情，再说如果是骗子，以你独闯世界这么多年的经验，不小太长时间，她就会现出原形。你说呢？祝你早日找到你的白雪公主！

谢谢你的分析。我也想到了这些，所以我要花一两年的时间来找个合适的。 -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-21 (#1524624@0)

同感,同感. -catherine7777(雪玫瑰); 2003-12-21 (#1525489@0)
但也别过分猜忌别人，其实还是好女孩多的。多了解，别见一面，就因为人家长得不是国货天香就拉倒。 -lalala0808(LALALA); 2003-12-22 {315} (#1526658@0)
你又不是找花瓶，再漂亮不当饭吃。一般人最好了。：）告诉你个秘诀，不化妆的女孩基本上都是好女孩，我没有说都是，我也没有说化妆就不好，千万不要拍我，这只是个人意见。还有，第一次见面不代表任何事情，大家都很尴尬，你希望人家女孩子能说些什么呢？慢慢来，着急不但没用，还误事，花1，2年找一个要与你共同生活50多年的伴侣，值得。

握手，握手！老兄所言及是。但个人认为长相还是要过得去。：） -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-22 (#1526830@0)

My 2 cents. -yangtse(Yangtse); 2003-12-21 {614} (#1524441@0)
I have suggested you to consult the laws above, which means that you have to take some responsibilities financially and you'd better be careful and open your eyes as big as possible to find the truly suitable girl for yourself.

But the most important issue is that I doubt if you can find the right one during the limited period of time. As you know, love is blind, love can only be met but can not be pursued. If you take your PR status as your important advantage to get a girl, I think it will be very risky for you.

No matter where you will find your another part in your life, I wish you good luck.

thank you very much! -ljd(独行天下); 2003-12-22 (#1526835@0)

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