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No big deal. I had been lived with my LG and HIS Brother in the same bedroom for 9 months. That was horrible and I even had no interest to figure out who was correct and who was incorrect.

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You know what? We are Chinese, even we are abroad, got PR or citizenship or even married with people from other race, we still are and will be Chinese forever. You know what I mean? You can't change anything that is already there. So the best way is forget the unhappy and don't question your LG or your brother.

actually for this case, I think your LG is just fine. There are someone who have problems in sleep like you LP. He shouldn't be blamed by your brother. Next time your brother complain your LG, just ask your brother think about you and him and his wife live in a same room...

Get yourself back. Nothing worth you to be sad, even they are the person you're quite close to... Be happy and treat yourself well.

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枫下家园 / 生活杂事 / 请问大家, 哥哥这样理解妹夫有道理吗? -guest:why; 2001-8-24 {1170} (#178139@0)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛夫妻二人在加拿大住BACHELOR(就是卧室和客厅在一起, 只用一个帘子隔开), LP的哥哥自远方来, 要住1-2年, 由于还没有找房子, 暂时住妹妹家, 睡客厅. 由于此夫妻的双人床较窄,较软, 平时他们很少睡同一张床, LG睡客厅. 当天晚上, LG睡不着, 翻来覆去, 而且卧室和客厅只是一帘相隔, 3人都没有睡好. 次日, 又是如此, 12点, LG穿了厚衣服, 到楼下的车库里睡了. 第三日, 哥哥说他一定要自己先找个房子解决睡觉问题(原先讲好了,第三月共同找个2 BEDROOM, 因此要一起住一个多月),并找到了房子, 10后搬. 从这晚上起10日左右, 大家都睡的可以, 没有发生LG睡车库的情况.

LG去车库睡的次日对LP说他去车库睡是为了大家都能睡着, 但是一个多月都这样睡, 大家都会受不了的. LP的理解是, LG平时睡觉确实不好, 外面有开车的声音他也睡不着, 而且两人很少一起在那张床上睡, 确实很挤, 她自己也睡得不踏实. 所以觉得前两天LG睡不着是可以理解的. 第三日, 两人习惯一点儿了, 而且LG知道了只要忍10日就可以了, 所以能睡了.

就此事, 哥哥很有意见, 认为LG前两日是故意装出睡不好的样子, 特别是第二日故意到车库睡, 目的就是为了赶他走. 论据是, 没说找房子的时候,LG 2天都不能睡觉, 但当找到了房子, 马上就能够睡好了. 妹妹(LP)觉得虽然LG确实不愿意这样睡一个多月, 但是不至于是故意为了撵哥哥走而装出睡不好的样子, 还半夜到车库去.

请问大家, 哥哥这样理解有道理吗?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

胡琢磨什么，自己的事没琢磨清楚还去忙活别人的 -000(老九); 2001-8-24 (#178145@0)

这是我的经历, 我想搞清楚, 是我太善解LG了, 还是哥哥太多心了. -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178150@0)

他们两个有想法都正常，我猜你们也不是经济上真有多紧张，何必三个人挤呢，三个成人呀 -000(老九); 2001-8-24 (#178154@0)

我估计他就是哥哥，不过我觉得凡事不用把人往差的方面想，想宽一点矛盾也就少一点。这种事不用自寻烦恼了 -guest:; 2001-8-24 (#178155@0)

我正是这样想, 才被哥哥骂, 说我一心只是维护LG. :( -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178174@0)

man, how can 3 people (2 families) stay in a bachalor? -guest:; 2001-8-24 (#178149@0)
不管理解对不对,三个大人住一个房间太不方便了,早点找房子是应该的. -guest:; 2001-8-24 (#178151@0)
为什么不买个宽点，硬点的床呢？这样你LG就能睡好了。而且，... ，三个成年人挤在一个bachler里，太别扭。 -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178153@0)

那确实是暂时的, 我只是想知道, 是我太善解LG了, 还是哥哥太多心了 -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178156@0)

知道了又能怎么样! -guest:; 2001-8-24 (#178162@0)

我希望LG和哥哥能处好关系. 有了这样的"误会", 怎么能有好关系? -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178177@0)

别讨论谁多心谁少心了。赶快给你哥找房子，你们换个床。个人意见。:) -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178163@0)

房子早就找了, 2 BEDROOM, 哥哥和我们各一间. 床也换了 :) 但是近来哥哥和我谈起此事, 一定认为LG当时故意赶他, 我说服不了他.他有了这样的想法, 他们两人的关系怎么能处好呢?所以我想问问大家如何看待这件事. -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178173@0)

找个机会，比如感恩节，中秋节什么的，你给炒几个好菜，买一盒子啤酒，让他们喝两杯:)。如果他们都喜欢运动就更好办了。 -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178183@0)
不过，谁遇到这事儿都会别扭的。有的人隐藏得比较好而已。所以我觉得你哥也好，你LG也好，都没什么错，也不是什么大事，心宽点就过去了。 -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178188@0)

你说的都很对. 我想搞清楚我是不是对别人太善了. 我妈以前总说我把别人想的太好了, 现在我哥又这么说, 我知道他们是为我好,所以我不得不思考, 是不是真的我有问题?我在人际关系上是不是有点儿太木了 -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178195@0)

你LG不是外人，对他善点挺好的啊。... 别想那么多了。你心思那么纤细，不累吗？:) 对了，你没问题，就是想得太多了。 -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178209@0)

也司说的是，他们两个要是喜欢喝酒的话就容易搞定 -000(老九); 2001-8-24 (#178191@0)

LG喜欢, 我哥不爱. :( -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178199@0)

你LG是好同志，看来是你哥的问题，把他打晕，灌醉 -000(老九); 2001-8-24 (#178206@0)

就是啊。一般都是哥哥让着妹妹，不应该让妹妹太为难了。-- 我这个算不算挑拨啊？:) -yes(椰丝); 2001-8-24 (#178214@0)

没啦, 没啦. 哥哥也确实替我着想, 到现在才提起这件事. 可是误会已经越来越多啦, 他们互相已经不喜欢了. 我倒是觉得有意见早点儿提更好些, 有些误会马上就解释清楚了. -guest:why; 2001-8-24 (#178226@0)

Your brother is girly! ... -guest:yaojian; 2001-8-24 (#178207@0)

Too Wu2Liao2! -guest:yaojian; 2001-8-24 (#178204@0)
No big deal. I had been lived with my LG and HIS Brother in the same bedroom for 9 months. That was horrible and I even had no interest to figure out who was correct and who was incorrect. -guest:Answer; 2001-8-24 {730} (#178217@0)
You know what? We are Chinese, even we are abroad, got PR or citizenship or even married with people from other race, we still are and will be Chinese forever. You know what I mean? You can't change anything that is already there. So the best way is forget the unhappy and don't question your LG or your brother.

actually for this case, I think your LG is just fine. There are someone who have problems in sleep like you LP. He shouldn't be blamed by your brother. Next time your brother complain your LG, just ask your brother think about you and him and his wife live in a same room...

Get yourself back. Nothing worth you to be sad, even they are the person you're quite close to... Be happy and treat yourself well.

Thank you for sharing your case with me. -guest:why; 2001-8-24 {156} (#178241@0)
Yeah, my brother keep saying that he can understand my LG. The only thing he complain is that my LG shouldn't go to the underground garage to kick him out.

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No big deal. I had been lived with my LG and HIS Brother in the same bedroom for 9 months. That was horrible and I even had no interest to figure out who was correct and who was incorrect.

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