本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I had been like this (your husband's situation) for one and half year at least. That was first few years in Canada and it was dark. The difference was that my wife was not as good as you are but she was working hard and taking care of the bills.

I was not a confident person and I didn't get a job in my field. I got response to my job application very very rarely, I even expected refusing letters but nothing. The confidence I only had had been destroyed.

I was unable to be active and I became very moody and annoying, we fought by words. I understood her pressure and what she was taking, believe or not, I was so upset to myself. The same thing is that, she didn't believe in me any more and she thought I didn't love her.

That was 2 years ago. I have a job now, in my profession. The thing is, we are still living in "the darkness" because of what I mentioned.

I won't say too much, I am saying you should leave or not. my purpose is that telling you what might be right happening to your husband and what would be happening in the future.

I can't imagine that a person may have no strength at all, go to find it and understand it. If you still love him, warm him not give up him, that might be the way to help yourself. Making you sound gently, making him feel no decisions can be made for sure without his care. It is your life, I mean you both.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net