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借我这坑，转贴一篇６０group里Marcha的非常感人的帖子：

happysky(steel)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛A note from Marsha


It feels good to have a feeling of belonging! A big thank you to our
Monitor and each and every member of the family who has done a great
job to make the family what it is today. Stronger Together! Let's
stay together, in hardship or in ease.
It's true that the happiest thing in life is to have a soul mate and
a life long partner to share life with. But being what we are today,
we still got to make the most out of life.
When I say stronger, I didn't mean the numbers of the family members.
If someone in the family was lucky enough to find his/her other half
in this family and eventually leave this big family and start their
own little cozy one, doesn't matter if it is monitor or other members.
I would, and I believe all other members would too, feel happy for
them and give them our best wishes. Who is not hungered for love!
I also believe the rest of us will continue to make this family a warm
place for each and every single friend who needs someone to laugh
with, to chat with, to share some fun, or just to see another caring
smile.
This 60's group is still a young tree. It needs us to water it and
take care of it. It is inevitable it will experience windstorm and
even hailstorm. However, if we all do what we could to protect it, it
will grow, and we will be like happy little birds singing and dancing
in the leaves.
As a big sister, I would also like to say something which may not be
necessary. Every person is unique. We all have different characters,
different temperaments and different backgrounds although we were all
born in the same time period. It is only natural that we will have
different way of doing things and different opinions. I hope we could
respect each other, understand each other, and be nice to each other.
I like the saying: treat others the way you yourself would like to be
treated.
It is not a big deal how the others outside the group see us, but it
will be destructive if we don't treasure each other.
Let's stay together and make each other's life better.
marsha更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
(#3593308@0)
Last Updated: 2007-4-3
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 按年代扎堆对阵，有必要吗？－－－也来凑点热闹 -happysky(steel); 2007-4-3 {673} (#3592674@0)
    最近这个坛子６０年代很是热闹了一番，惹得一些小于６０的朋友眼急，挽起袖子对阵干仗。其实，大家想想，以按１０年跨度的年代来扎堆，以示阅历的不同来作茧自缚，是否不合逻辑了点。６８，６９年和７０，７１年的显然要比与６０，６１年的更有相似的生活经历，更有共同语言。很可能，这次对阵的两方，就有这些真正的同代人却在不同"年代"生。不同与以前国内”老三届“、”新三届“之说，仅三年的间隔，那是真正意义上的同代人，而有１０年跨度的”年代“ 的两端，却是相差较大的两代人了。

    所以，大家不仿冷静下来。以兴趣爱好出发来组织活动或神聊胡侃，这样反而会遇到和结交更多志同道合的同龄朋友，何苦在这里为一种本来就不合逻辑的划分来对阵干仗呢，也许，你攻击的对方才正是你的真正意义上的同代哥们／姐们儿。
    • good idea. Ding -nuanxin(暖心); 2007-4-3 (#3592692@0)
    • 是的，超同意，扎堆要讲缘分，爱好，兴趣，志向，－－－－． -xnw29(架雨); 2007-4-3 (#3592793@0)
      • 对 ! -okea(梅子); 2007-4-3 (#3592891@0)
    • 谢谢楼上二位！真不希望这快乐论坛变得郁闷，而且还惹得斑竹拉偏架：）（我猜斑竹是６０的,haha,有情可原） -happysky(steel); 2007-4-3 (#3592927@0)
      • 胡乱猜测, 小心斑竹删贴喔. -flyovermontain(嗨，我是阿飞); 2007-4-3 (#3592977@0)
      • 不同意LZ的观点,如何分班是一个问题,无理取闹是另一个问题，这两个问题应该分开讲，有些人心中无爱(灰暗)，又看不得别人快乐，无理骚扰别人，这是网络，如果是现实生活，就可以被911带走，因此说斑竹是拉偏架,猜测斑竹是60年代的是毫无道理的，也是是非不分的。 -tear(蓝色的泪); 2007-4-3 (#3593212@0)
    • 非常同意你的观点。事实上60 年代班里不只仅是出生于60年代的人，有50年代的，也有70年代的，是一个开放的group, 任何人都可以参加，自然60年代为多。我们的宗旨只是给大家提供一个社交的平台，并没有其他的任何目地。 -router99(router); 2007-4-3 {518} (#3593005@0)
      大家也看到了，这个group自成立始给大家带来了多少笑声，给沉闷单调的加拿大生活带来了多少快乐和色彩！可是就有那么一些人自己不快乐还看不得别人快乐，极尽龌龊为能事，甚至不惜出卖自己的人格！我们不想和任何人作对，不想和任何人争执，但也决不允许任何人侵犯我们做人的尊严！我们追求的是快乐！不想在无谓的争斗中耗费宝贵的时光！所以我们搬家，离开这个是非之地，惹不起，躲得起！再强调一下，这是一个开放的group, 欢迎任何有兴趣的XDJM参加，无论你是哪一个年代的，只要你追求快乐！当然，你同时必须遵纪守法，尊重中华文化传统和道德，尊重他人！
      • Then, why you guys have to move? Stay, if you want. -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593119@0)
        • I told you already, we don't want to fight with anybody! -router99(router); 2007-4-3 (#3593150@0)
          • Staying at Rolia has anything to do with fighting with others? I don't think so. Stay, and ignore whatever you don't like, and you don't need to fight with anyone else. -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593156@0)
            • Thanks. You should know everybody has dignity! We cannot ignore that! -router99(router); 2007-4-3 (#3593162@0)
              • I know everyone has dignity, but it is your right to NOT GIVE your attention to those without dignity. -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593228@0)
            • 说说容易，当你吃饭的时候，两只苍蝇嗡嗡的围着你，你什么感觉？ -flyovermontain(嗨，我是阿飞); 2007-4-3 (#3593549@0)
              • I feel different. Internet is SILENT, and no matter how 嗡嗡嗡嗡, I won't feel bothered at all, cause I can NOT hear. :) While if I am physically in the restaurant, I will leave for sure. -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3594379@0)
                • 拿起苍蝇拍，是不是态度更积极些？ -flyovermontain(嗨，我是阿飞); 2007-4-4 (#3594398@0)
                  • It depends on the contexts. I would say "no, unnecessary" in the internet context, while definitely "yes" in a realistic life scenario. -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3595006@0)
                    • Cause on internet, I can CHOOSE TO see and read whatever I want with all stuff that I don't want excluded. -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3595007@0)
                    • 嘿，又变主意了：''While if I am physically in the restaurant, I will leave for sure‘‘. -flyovermontain(嗨，我是阿飞); 2007-4-4 (#3595020@0)
                      • I guess it is you who do not understand what I have been talking about. Waste my time. My last reply to you. -asker(amour); 2007-4-6 (#3598790@0)
      • 谢谢router！也读了你们group里Marcha的一贴子，非常感人。大家多一些理解和宽容，多一些快乐的活动，比打口水仗相互伤人强了去了：） -happysky(steel); 2007-4-3 (#3593226@0)
        • 理解万岁！ -router99(router); 2007-4-3 (#3593714@0)
    • Want to get a boy/girlfriend? Want to get a male/female friend? Want to fall in love? Want to get married? GET OFF THE INTERNET, and GET OFF ROLIA . I just can't understand why you guys can't get it. -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593069@0)
      • 阿门啊阿门，善哉啊善哉 -nodream(～～～); 2007-4-3 (#3593090@0)
        • Sorry, :) just that I really can't understand why some Rolian “60年代”, “70年代”“80年代”...“..年代”people have so much difficulty in finding their loved ones. For God's sake, around 10.60 percent of the Toronto population is CHINESE. -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593096@0)
          • 要不您手指头扒拉扒拉，把他们都搓和起来 -nodream(～～～); 2007-4-3 (#3593108@0)
            • Have you heard that God helps those who help themselves? :) -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593111@0)
              • he was asking you, not GOD. -geoguy(on_the_road); 2007-4-3 (#3593123@0)
                • Since the best that God can do is to help those who can help themselves, I guess I can't do anything better than that. :) -asker(amour); 2007-4-3 (#3593158@0)
                  • 咳，感情你不是上帝啊，怎么听着贼像 -nodream(～～～); 2007-4-3 (#3593166@0)
                    • Thank you so much for taking me as the Lord. :) I guess nothing wrong with my tone, but something MUST be wrong with your eyes, ears, or even brain. -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3594381@0)
                      • 这样扑叉扑叉的不好 -nodream(～～～); 2007-4-4 (#3595040@0)
      • asker, they are using the internet to organize activities, which are OFF the internet, the internet is just for organizing activities ! Don't you understand ? -okea(梅子); 2007-4-3 (#3593311@0)
        • I understand it perfectly, and what I don't understand is that why so so so and soooooo many same-old activities have been held, and so many friends have been made, still quite a few people are ALONE like forever? -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3594383@0)
          • I remember someone said "One door is closed , another door must be open". So why not try something else other than internet, if it didn't, doesn't and won't work out? I hope those activities won't be held for nothing but the sake of activities. -asker(amour); 2007-4-4 (#3594384@0)
            • what suggestion do you have then ? What's the alternative ? -okea(梅子); 2007-4-4 (#3595167@0)
              • I guess you can figure out my alternatives, if you do understand what I have been talking about. My last reply to you. Gee, I will never and ever again feel sorry for those who keep whining "I am so lonely." Suit yourself. -asker(amour); 2007-4-6 (#3598800@0)
    • 借我这坑，转贴一篇６０group里Marcha的非常感人的帖子： -happysky(steel); 2007-4-3 {2124} (#3593308@0)
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛A note from Marsha


      It feels good to have a feeling of belonging! A big thank you to our
      Monitor and each and every member of the family who has done a great
      job to make the family what it is today. Stronger Together! Let's
      stay together, in hardship or in ease.
      It's true that the happiest thing in life is to have a soul mate and
      a life long partner to share life with. But being what we are today,
      we still got to make the most out of life.
      When I say stronger, I didn't mean the numbers of the family members.
      If someone in the family was lucky enough to find his/her other half
      in this family and eventually leave this big family and start their
      own little cozy one, doesn't matter if it is monitor or other members.
      I would, and I believe all other members would too, feel happy for
      them and give them our best wishes. Who is not hungered for love!
      I also believe the rest of us will continue to make this family a warm
      place for each and every single friend who needs someone to laugh
      with, to chat with, to share some fun, or just to see another caring
      smile.
      This 60's group is still a young tree. It needs us to water it and
      take care of it. It is inevitable it will experience windstorm and
      even hailstorm. However, if we all do what we could to protect it, it
      will grow, and we will be like happy little birds singing and dancing
      in the leaves.
      As a big sister, I would also like to say something which may not be
      necessary. Every person is unique. We all have different characters,
      different temperaments and different backgrounds although we were all
      born in the same time period. It is only natural that we will have
      different way of doing things and different opinions. I hope we could
      respect each other, understand each other, and be nice to each other.
      I like the saying: treat others the way you yourself would like to be
      treated.
      It is not a big deal how the others outside the group see us, but it
      will be destructive if we don't treasure each other.
      Let's stay together and make each other's life better.
      marsha更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • 看来你不是一个是非不分的人,向你道歉,也欢迎你加入我们团队^_^ -tear(蓝色的泪); 2007-4-3 (#3593314@0)
        • 谢谢！借用一句老话，理解万岁。 -happysky(steel); 2007-4-3 (#3593657@0)
          • Happy Sky, 谢谢你将俺的帖转到这里．　也谢谢你的理解和支持．　希望你也早日归队！ -penshurst(笔瑟); 2007-4-8 (#3598584@0)
    • 我同事的中学同学， 现在是博士， 在网上有一个自我介绍。 说到兴趣爱好时， 他填的是“女人” -simmersnake(步履无声); 2007-4-6 (#3598810@0)

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