本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛How do you know he is the man who truely loves you?
You are right. " 一个36， 37， 38 岁的男人完全可以找一个31， 32 或者再年青一点的
女人." However, a woman usually lives longer than a man, in that case , it might convince me to look for a husband younger than me to avoid old age loneliness, Secondly, 82 versus 28 is also a case in point. It's always easy for a man to find a young girl as long as he is surrounded by fame/wealth/or probably he occupies US citizenship.. Then the whole thing is NOT called love; it is called Exchange. I feel it might be Exchange instead of love, because he cannot love me without any reasons. There should be a reason for love.
For the older generation, marriage is a duty probably, an inevitable step in human life. Family, love, sex, kids... etc, it is all a marriage can offer. I think for our generation, like late 70s, we just pursue what is right and what makes us feel happy. I do not think a marriage will secure a happy family cuz I have seen too many misfortunes in the family board which totally deprived of my confidence in love and marriage.
You said 1 type of women is arrogant; the other type is with high requirements on men. Actually, what comes into my mind is it is not really the case for single woman in Toronto. Guys are also extremely picky in the ways of selection.
whatever happens, there is a reason or purpose. why should he 真心对你好?"你还真的对婚姻报有希望的话， 把你对男人的要求只应该有一条：他是一个会真心对你好的男人。" I think it is NOT feasible.
There are lots of guys who can make me to tend to feel like/love, when I see his eyes, attracted by his intoxicating smile, seduced by his masculine odor; however, what he does cannot convince me he is the right one.
sorry for the broken English. Next time I will spit all the guts in Chinese after I install the Chinese input in the computer.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
You are right. " 一个36， 37， 38 岁的男人完全可以找一个31， 32 或者再年青一点的
女人." However, a woman usually lives longer than a man, in that case , it might convince me to look for a husband younger than me to avoid old age loneliness, Secondly, 82 versus 28 is also a case in point. It's always easy for a man to find a young girl as long as he is surrounded by fame/wealth/or probably he occupies US citizenship.. Then the whole thing is NOT called love; it is called Exchange. I feel it might be Exchange instead of love, because he cannot love me without any reasons. There should be a reason for love.
For the older generation, marriage is a duty probably, an inevitable step in human life. Family, love, sex, kids... etc, it is all a marriage can offer. I think for our generation, like late 70s, we just pursue what is right and what makes us feel happy. I do not think a marriage will secure a happy family cuz I have seen too many misfortunes in the family board which totally deprived of my confidence in love and marriage.
You said 1 type of women is arrogant; the other type is with high requirements on men. Actually, what comes into my mind is it is not really the case for single woman in Toronto. Guys are also extremely picky in the ways of selection.
whatever happens, there is a reason or purpose. why should he 真心对你好?"你还真的对婚姻报有希望的话， 把你对男人的要求只应该有一条：他是一个会真心对你好的男人。" I think it is NOT feasible.
There are lots of guys who can make me to tend to feel like/love, when I see his eyes, attracted by his intoxicating smile, seduced by his masculine odor; however, what he does cannot convince me he is the right one.
sorry for the broken English. Next time I will spit all the guts in Chinese after I install the Chinese input in the computer.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net