You are wrong. If a person respects her job, she will do it really good. It is not what kind job she does, she will do anything the best. People like you, ask big pay, but never could get it.

coolmommy(happymommy)

The reason is you never showed how much you are trying to do it good. So you only can stay as lowest class person ever. You even don't have the attitude to change. You will never understand how to improve yourself. A lot of the nannies are just want to marry some rich man, even they are married. So they could get the DREAM life they want. Too BAD, you can't get it, because a wise man is not only looking at a woman's face and body. So please try to be a good caregiver first, then you can talk about how to be a better human being. You are they person who will never understand what HIGHER STANDARD personality means.

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Last Updated: 2009-5-6

thanks! -huranjian(披发缓形广步于庭); 2009-5-5 (#5241506@0)

完全赞同楼主的观点。偶和朋友都有类似经历。 -oldgegewu(蓝精灵); 2009-5-7 (#5247289@0)

写得好。类似的情况我也听说过，听国内亲戚说的，因为她们身边就有这样的人，用这种办法出国。 -ckzn(我爱玫瑰园); 2009-5-5 (#5241560@0)

Don't you see lots of immigration ad. from newspaper are encouraging Chinese girls who has not any experience to apply immigration in this way? It only need take 2 years to get the green card. -tracyd(假若明天来临); 2009-5-5 (#5241741@0)

还是找亲戚来好，很多人把亲戚当保姆办过来，也帮亲戚了也照顾自己了，还算好，只是亲戚说不得，不认识的不喜欢可以解雇，但亲戚怎么也要在你家住在3年才能拿到身份吧，其实大家都辛苦。 -karen0315(麒麒妈); 2009-5-5 (#5241747@0)

比来比去，还是自己爹妈看自己儿孙放心。结果还这么多闹别扭的 -vega_lee(天津包子-就不改); 2009-5-5 (#5242835@0)

都是为孩子好，只是老人带孩子的方法年轻人有的不接受吧.我还是觉得孩子自己带最好. -karen0315(麒麒妈); 2009-5-5 (#5243203@0)

从国内雇保姆一共得花多少钱？比在本地雇便宜么？加拿大保姆中心是这边的中介？ -wwmm(乐妈); 2009-5-5 (#5242077@0)

家里有钱的，还用跑过来给你打工？整天住在别人家，不是一般人受得了的吧？寄人篱下，工资不高，还要对别人的小孩上心，要求太高了..... -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5242826@0)

你太逗乐。她是来做保姆的。 -lilyba(sunshine 阳光灿烂); 2009-5-5 (#5242853@0)

对啊，又不是来做爱心天使的。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5242941@0)

爱心天使，那就对她要求太高了。住家保姆，一定要住家，一定要保姆。不干拉倒。赞成楼主让保姆滚蛋。 -lilyba(sunshine 阳光灿烂); 2009-5-5 (#5242986@0)

让保姆滚蛋容易，但是楼主不是还得费尽接着找？并且你也不知道保姆给你的饭菜里下了什么料。要想什么都满意，只能自己干。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5243543@0)

我觉得你心理有问题.既然不愿意做保姆,就不该答应人家做.任何人做任何事情,为了达到自己的目标都要经过努力的.你不肯付出,只想来简单的,而且要别人又付钱.又费力帮你.公平么?如果自己干得过来,也不会要请人的. -coolmommy(happymommy); 2009-5-5 (#5243644@0)

不然。我的意思是，如果你要雇人干活，那只能睁一只眼，闭一只眼，没人能让你完全满意。如果对方觉得离开你找不到更好的工作，当然会卖力干。如果碰上给多少钱都不出力的，你只好一直换下去，或自己干。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5243697@0)

其实就是国内来的保姆的普遍心理，用这里的话就是不够professional，这也是说中文的nanny难找的真正原因 -myapril(aprilmay); 2009-5-5 (#5243100@0)

professional，价格肯定就高，从国内找保姆，优势应该在价格上。我认识的一位老太太，在美国给人家做主家保姆，最后因为溺爱小孩，和小孩的父母闹翻了....... 没人真正能让雇主满意的。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5243570@0)

你要明白保姆是个职业,就要有职业感和职业道德.你在公司里上班不也得听老板的么?能说由着你任性做么? -coolmommy(happymommy); 2009-5-5 (#5243657@0)

如果你太有职业感，职业道德了，你就该跳槽了...... -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5243707@0)

You are wrong. If a person respects her job, she will do it really good. It is not what kind job she does, she will do anything the best. People like you, ask big pay, but never could get it. -coolmommy(happymommy); 2009-5-6 {623} (#5245038@0)
The reason is you never showed how much you are trying to do it good. So you only can stay as lowest class person ever. You even don't have the attitude to change. You will never understand how to improve yourself. A lot of the nannies are just want to marry some rich man, even they are married. So they could get the DREAM life they want. Too BAD, you can't get it, because a wise man is not only looking at a woman's face and body. So please try to be a good caregiver first, then you can talk about how to be a better human being. You are they person who will never understand what HIGHER STANDARD personality means.

连买东西都是一分钱一分货，这服务就更是了。另外还有就是“敬业”二字，下至老百姓，上至官员，能做到的不多。 -myapril(aprilmay); 2009-5-5 (#5243678@0)

优质的服务，真不是一般移民承受得起的。好保姆难找，好雇主也难找。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-5 (#5243711@0)

So typical... -letempsdescerises(豆粉); 2009-5-6 (#5244255@0)
这种心理实在可笑。家里没钱，寄人篱下，工资不高，你赖谁呀？把种种不满发谢在雇主身上，雇主offer你反倒成了不是。 -yusheng(拜月); 2009-5-6 (#5244291@0)

貌似是雇主对保姆不满，没人表示对雇主不满呀。不过雇主给offer，是为了他自己的利益，被雇的也有不满的权利吧。 -uwofri(0x2B||!0x2B); 2009-5-6 (#5244983@0)

If you don't like the job, shouldn't take the offer. If you took the offer, you should respect yourself and others. I don't think you are a good nanny. My nanny is crying to save her job, but she really doesn't know how to do it. -coolmommy(happymommy); 2009-5-6 {188} (#5244994@0)
She even doesn't know to put child's safety first. You should be really shame for yourself. Wants to get something and do nothing for it. You are really a lazy Asssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhh.

英语不好，她如何能过使馆那一关呢？ -cher(春豆); 2009-5-5 (#5242834@0)

除了大户人家，保姆这个相处，很难很难。 -caa(移民的孙悟空lifeisok); 2009-5-5 (#5243222@0)
在加拿大很缺人手的时候，英文要求很低的。 -newlabour(labour); 2009-5-5 (#5243499@0)

Does anyone have positive experience with Chinese live-in nanny? I haven't heard any so far... -worldcitizen(慢慢); 2009-5-5 (#5243247@0)

70年代我家先后给老人请过4个各地的保姆，老人退休金90元加上50元的儿女孝敬月费。工钱很好，但一个偷钱，两个克扣老人的饭费(因为放手大包干)，严重到春节老人吃咸菜。另一个每日出去谈恋爱。人无完人，所以保姆很难很难。 -caa(移民的孙悟空lifeisok); 2009-5-5 (#5243256@0)

我觉得我们在国内找的那几个保姆都还不错啊，可能我要求不高，呵呵，我总是觉得差不多就行了，从来不跟保姆太计较，不过我们还是运气不错的，其中一个保姆是请来照顾家里瘫痪的老人的，我都跟她说不用做晚饭，结果我每天下班她都把饭做好了 -babyface077(Babyface); 2009-5-5 {152} (#5243540@0)
不过我们给的工资还是很高的，一个月3000，她也说得很实在，她说出来干就是想来挣钱的，我们给的钱多，她也很珍惜，而且我们对她好，她也知道，所以也对老人很好。

你那是3000人民币啊，要是在这边要付3000加币的话估计找的保姆也能不错，可是能或者愿意出到这个价的东家又有多少呢。 -loverocky(我的小奶桶); 2009-5-5 (#5243575@0)

3000加币不会没有. 只不过我们国移圈子没看到, BAYVIEW/LAWERENCE那一带豪宅的保姆估计有这收入. 可是有几个保姆达的到聘用要求呢? -pinkcloudy(Rhythm of the rain); 2009-5-5 (#5243686@0)

给3000人民币是因为照顾瘫痪的老人啊，每天大小便要伺候，而且老人瘫痪以后脾气很不好，晚上要求半夜起来给按摩2，3个小时，我觉得她也值这个钱，如果只是请来做家务肯定不会给这么多了，做家务我们都是每天来半天的给700，全天的给1300左右，好像都是这个价 -babyface077(Babyface); 2009-5-5 (#5243716@0)
live-in nanny收入差异相当高, 一般年薪$18,000-38,000. 照顾瘫痪老人的live-in nanny, 月工资$3000应该很正常 -2yue(二月莺飞); 2009-5-5 (#5243855@0)

是啊，其实最难找的是肯照顾生病的老人的保姆，很多人情愿照顾小孩的。 -anan2007(Green); 2009-5-6 (#5244667@0)

说到底还是钱的关系。现在国内大学毕业都不一定挣得到一个月3000. -letempsdescerises(豆粉); 2009-5-6 (#5244278@0)

关键是“放手大包干”，即缺少制约机制，让她有太多贪污机会。当年我雇的人，工资和花费是分开的；他要每天记账（包括单价、数量），我不定期检查并询问，让她感受到我的监督。这样，她即使贪污，也只能坛个零头，我可以忍受。 -rollor(记住历史忘记仇); 2009-5-6 (#5244118@0)

当代中国文化下成长的几代中，不可能出合格的保姆。要找称心的保姆还是往菲律宾，马来西亚人当中找吧。 -letempsdescerises(豆粉); 2009-5-6 (#5244247@0)

Want to know more. Check your PM please.Thanks. -toask(问号); 2009-5-6 (#5244441@0)

想请教一下，象你这样通过中介从国内请保姆来，你要提供哪些材料（比如收入正明之类的)? -wonder2008(land); 2009-5-6 (#5245762@0)

到移民部网站查，手续非常简单。。。我也办过自己一个远远亲戚，她以前也帮我看孩子。。可惜英语不行，面试被飞了。。 -u7d(u7d); 2009-5-6 (#5246193@0)
收入不重要。。。好像我都没有什么收入证明。。后来要了银行帐单，保税单。 -u7d(u7d); 2009-5-6 (#5246200@0)

Ooops, should reply here:完全赞同楼主的观点。偶和朋友都有类似经历 -oldgegewu(蓝精灵); 2009-5-7 (#5247293@0)

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You are wrong. If a person respects her job, she will do it really good. It is not what kind job she does, she will do anything the best. People like you, ask big pay, but never could get it.

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