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I'm not in a good stage as most of you people are, but I still think myself as a decent human being.
Responded couple of posts here in the forum,the first question is always about job? Of course a job means a stable income, but does it really mean that much? Woman just stopped there once they know you don't have a decent job.
Some women even think they are superior just because they have a master here, and working in a big company. The point is, if you are an immigrant in your 30's, will you think a job in a big company is enough? What's wrong with all of those beautiful dreams we have before we moved here...? All has been comprimised? Simply a job will make you think you are in a good stage or superior to others...
Marriage is all about communication, to me. it's about find someone who you two have the similiar ideas, share the similiar interests, want to spend time together, also won't feel awkward even if you don't do anything, just sitting together. Poeple just stopped exploring the possiblities once they know you don't have a "decent" job...
One more confusion, who should give a definition to "a decent job"? Different people has different definition for it...更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I'm not in a good stage as most of you people are, but I still think myself as a decent human being.
Responded couple of posts here in the forum,the first question is always about job? Of course a job means a stable income, but does it really mean that much? Woman just stopped there once they know you don't have a decent job.
Some women even think they are superior just because they have a master here, and working in a big company. The point is, if you are an immigrant in your 30's, will you think a job in a big company is enough? What's wrong with all of those beautiful dreams we have before we moved here...? All has been comprimised? Simply a job will make you think you are in a good stage or superior to others...
Marriage is all about communication, to me. it's about find someone who you two have the similiar ideas, share the similiar interests, want to spend time together, also won't feel awkward even if you don't do anything, just sitting together. Poeple just stopped exploring the possiblities once they know you don't have a "decent" job...
One more confusion, who should give a definition to "a decent job"? Different people has different definition for it...更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net