Re: Worstever's post
我的观点： 结婚不是买菜烧菜，买菜也要挑挑拣拣了； 烧菜也要等熟了才能吃。
It is true that a marriage should be based on mutual trust, love and common interest. However, these are only some of the key issues. Say, how will you support the family after marriage? Are you prepared? Who will take the responsibility to raise the child? Who will take care of the old parents?
(As for 1 child policy in China, young couple have got four old people to support)
Survival job is easy for one person. I can also save some money for continuing education and repay my parents. What if I have a family? Probably a survival job is not enough. Most guys refuse me because I do not have a very good job although I keep on trying to find one by all means. I think a decent job is of top priority in seeking for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I just want to emphasize that" Self independence" is crucial regardless of martial status.
我的观点： 结婚不是买菜烧菜，买菜也要挑挑拣拣了； 烧菜也要等熟了才能吃。
It is true that a marriage should be based on mutual trust, love and common interest. However, these are only some of the key issues. Say, how will you support the family after marriage? Are you prepared? Who will take the responsibility to raise the child? Who will take care of the old parents?
(As for 1 child policy in China, young couple have got four old people to support)
Survival job is easy for one person. I can also save some money for continuing education and repay my parents. What if I have a family? Probably a survival job is not enough. Most guys refuse me because I do not have a very good job although I keep on trying to find one by all means. I think a decent job is of top priority in seeking for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I just want to emphasize that" Self independence" is crucial regardless of martial status.