be more specific, what kind of difficulties you will be facing? what kind of help you are looking for? etc
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-6-12(#3737847@0)
It's very nice yu talk to me. You are helping me now. I am really looking for some friend who have same experience with me.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3737866@0)
if you want a joint divorce, then you do not need a lawyer at all. You can ask him to buy a divorce kit from Staples ($40.00), then fill the form and go to the court.
-heshang(阿咪咪,咪咪,咪咪陀佛);
2007-6-12{66}(#3737947@0)
But if you want some finacial benefit from him, go to a lawyer ...
He is not man, he does not want to go court. If I do not agree to divorce , he will beat me to death.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3737962@0)
if he wants to do such a stupid thing, call the police without any hesitation!
-heshang(兽医甲);
2007-6-12(#3737971@0)
Call 911. Don't be too weak, protect you and your right. Don't think If u call 911, u cannot reunite with him anymore. If he doesn't love u, all your effor is in vain.
-sunflowerr(晨曦);
2007-6-13(#3740644@0)
Second, is there any chinese divoced women club?
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3737954@0)
Third, I need find a place to live, is there any lady who want to share the apartment or house with me? My financial is ok, I still have job, just want to have friends to talk to.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738011@0)
call 211 and ask for Mandarin service. They can tell you all the organizations' phone numbers. I think you need women's shelter, it's free. If he hits you, call 911, the police will arrange everything for you.
-cc123(cc123);
2007-6-12{169}(#3738025@0)
In Canada, women are very well protected. Even if you're just afraid that he will hit you, you can call 911 and police will come, then you can ask them to help you out.
If you get a divorce with him, don't forget to get half of the house (if he owns a house), and alimony (赡养费).
-cc123(cc123);
2007-6-12(#3738070@0)
Thanks for rembering this. I do not think I can get anything from him. Both of us have same salary. What can I get from him?
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738118@0)
Divorce is biggest failure in my whole life, it is too heavy and I can not stand up again.I do not know how other pepole will treat me after divorce.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738194@0)
are you kill me ? so older
-edcw(巡巡密密);
2007-6-12(#3738196@0)
guess that's part of the reasons that your husband want to divorce u: his girl friend must be telling him how much she loves him, which probably is true.
-hayu(xixi);
2007-6-12{146}(#3738210@0)
and it's not worth thinking anymore, just leave him alone, his heart and body all not yours anymore, so what's the meaning of sticking together.
I do not get the point here.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738214@0)
sorry, wrong place. this is to lz.
-hayu(xixi);
2007-6-12(#3738216@0)
I am a conservative women. Maybe age is also older than you think.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738207@0)
Really hope the sky is still bueatiful to me after divorce.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738233@0)
I'm sure it will:)
-lifewillbebetter(sunnyman);
2007-6-12(#3738237@0)
did u have dinner?
-lifewillbebetter(sunnyman);
2007-6-12(#3738240@0)
did u notice that u kinda think about yourself much more than him? no offence. just guess: he is feeling the love from her, not u anymore.
-hayu(xixi);
2007-6-12(#3738241@0)
I do not fell hungry. We are already not eat together any more. My hunsband lost his mind. He think everything I did is not good for him.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-16(#3738252@0)
Today I am crying and try to find a friend which I can talk to, my friend can not be reached. I have to go on website to look for friend. Your guys make me feel better now, I can see friends everywhere, I do not fell very lonely now.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738245@0)
sorry, u must be feeling bad. go out a little bit more, do sth. else which u have interest. he's not worth your thinking. i didn't think 2 much about your current situation.
-hayu(xixi);
2007-6-12(#3738253@0)
I will go out for long walk usually when it is dark. No shiny and no pepole know me. I fell better in that situation.
-anaana429(ana);
2007-6-12(#3738269@0)
woman, pull yourself together, there are a lot of sisters with you. You are not alone. The path isn't clear, but you will find it. Have some pride of god. Stand for yourself. You aren't the weak!!!
-jluojluo(Polar Bear);
2007-6-12(#3738296@0)
You can not change your husband, but you can change yourself, to be strong and kick him out, enjoy every minute in your life, you will be the winner, i have the same experience as you. Good luck!
-duoqin(多情善感);
2007-6-16(#3747214@0)