I 've decided that seek out a person for fun in 2004 and 2005, and for mutual support after that, who knows. I agree this sentence: make sure it can broaden your horizon and bring new experiences to your life.
-howtimeflies(goodolddays);
2003-12-28(#1534302@0)
good point. the question is: how can we find out the true lifestyle of a person before we get attached to a relationship?things are not always what they seem, it may take a long time to put your affection in right place.
-beentaken(whatever);
2003-12-28{99}(#1534314@0)
true. And sometimes affection developes between the people who have different life styles and before attach yourself with this person, you don't know if there's a harmony or not.
-secretgarden(跳跳蓝莓);
2003-12-28(#1534357@0)
you can hardly look into one's lifestyle, as you indicated in your message, until you are given chance to be close to him/her. should we make a scruitny in the first place?
-beentaken(whatever);
2003-12-28(#1534459@0)
guess to be materialized is not a bad thing, at least not always,. :-P
-babyface(︽※︾天真时代︽※︾);
2003-12-28(#1534660@0)
what do you mean by " to be materalized"? Or to be materialistic? If that is the case, that is not what I meant by "follow the money":))
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-随波逐流2004年);
2003-12-28(#1534705@0)
How does your husband/boyfriend comment on your ideas? Does he agree with you?
-xyz123(bluesky);
2003-12-28(#1534340@0)
On this one? en...maybe partially. I produce many weird thoughts everyday and he is always my first audience.:-)
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-随波逐流2004年);
2003-12-28(#1534356@0)
Good, you couple are living a easy life.A joking for you, if you tell your husband, you had a boyfriend or you want to have a boyfriend, how he will react by guessing? Or opposite, he tells you that he had a girl friend or he want to have a girlfriend, how will you react? Please just forget it if you don't like the joke.
-xyz123(bluesky);
2003-12-28{283}(#1534372@0)
Well....We chose to be 1 to 1 and we’ve developed an unspoken agreement of what’s appropriate and what's not. So far so good. We trust each other and we don't feel suffocated either.
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-随波逐流2004年);
2003-12-28{178}(#1534394@0)
good to you
-xyz123(bluesky);
2003-12-28(#1534447@0)
this means you do not have any responsibility for each other in life.
-goingout(freshair);
2003-12-28(#1534700@0)
it's not good. The better way is marry money, then you can make your own lifestyle.hehe
-china_wei(cool_cool);
2003-12-28(#1534369@0)
Yes, everybody perceives the world differently...that is just one other perspective (from me):-)
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-随波逐流2004年);
2003-12-28(#1534498@0)
That is what I wanted to say :)
-wade(wade);
2003-12-28(#1534512@0)
Marriage is a contract, lifestyle is only one of the terms.
-hipacific(crystalblue);
2003-12-28(#1534461@0)
true :-) That is just one of my explanations
-dropoutinmiami(饺子-随波逐流2004年);
2003-12-28(#1534501@0)
I would agree with your points, If1. I were 15 years old, just like my son, he is talking with his (Maybe) girl friend right now, with full of romance, without any realities of future.
2. I had million dollors. Althought I have half million, I still do not have same idea of love.
-goingout(freshair);
2003-12-28{248}(#1534630@0)
this idea lifestyle can happen only with few lucky guys in this world or in novels.
-goingout(freshair);
2003-12-28(#1534634@0)
:-). ur hubby agrees with ur conclusion?
-babyface(︽※︾天真时代︽※︾);
2003-12-28(#1534652@0)