Topic: 分开就意味着分手吗? @华人论坛:枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of

枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 分开就意味着分手吗?这是我的ex的观点.我来到了这里,我们从此天各一方,一切的一切都成为过去.尽管我还是很心痛,痛到每每会哭着醒来.可是这也许是我们最好的结局 -- 不再互相羁绊.他说,我会在这里开始新的生活.可是一个人的魂没了,天堂和地狱又有什么区别呢?也许我不适合谈感情,每次都陷的无法自拔.所以,我决定孤独一生. -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-5 {277} (#2591533@0)

yeah, i know. but sometimes easier said than done. -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-5 (#2591650@0)

There is nobody who is not replaceable or unforgetable in our lifes....time heals...come back to this forum next year and you will find how true this saying is -fiona_young(fiona); 2005-11-7 (#2594684@0)

Pain is big part of our life. Feeling pain is better than feeling nothing. Don't try too hard to change things you can not change but also don't let something or someone else control your life.Know what you want; Try your best to get it; If you fail, let it be.
BTW, don't you know that you can control your feelings? It is easy said than done but at least you need to know you are the master of your body and feeling. Don't blame anything else. -zhu(猪头); 2005-11-5 {256} (#2591666@0)

You may be right, but my experience is that when I feel nothing I have no problem sleep, when I feel pain, I cannot sleep well. -rainyheart(rainyheart); 2005-11-5 (#2591786@0)

nothing i can do right now. Yup, just let it be. i wont' regret for i have done my best. -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-5 (#2592179@0)

"Know what you want", I was told the same words刚刚经过了人生中的不大不小的一次变故，人也大病了一场，现在还是哑哑的，说不出话。黑眼圈，眼袋，黑眼袋统统都爬上了脸，好在有了家人和好朋友的帮助，我走了出来。

前天跟要毕业的几个同学在学校花园里照相，抛起一把落叶，它们不做丝毫停留地随风飘去了，想想人这一辈子也是这样吧。不要在乎太多，伤害的只能是自己。 -misswindmill(圣诞菊); 2005-11-5 {302} (#2591807@0)

人也就这么几十年的时间，能让自己快乐就快乐吧。做自己想做的有时候非常难，但是如果真的成功你的喜悦不是一般随波逐流的人可以体会的。 -zhu(猪头); 2005-11-6 (#2592767@0)

"我决定孤独一生"......been there done that....blah...blah....blah....then got my dream girl..... -mysabre(不再是豪哥们的江湖了); 2005-11-5 (#2592189@0)
阴谋，好阴的阴谋阿，他怎么怎么做？：（ -howcomescanada(归去来); 2005-11-6 (#2592675@0)

这世上有些东西是无法忘怀的.只不过尘封在心底最深出,不去触摸. -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-6 (#2592946@0)
你的歌让我流眼泪 -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-6 (#2592958@0)
世界上流泪的事情很多，情天恨海、风高云长，没有事事如意。养精蓄锐吧，我的朋友！ -howcomescanada(归去来); 2005-11-6 (#2593305@0)

you are welcome, and that is what we can do for you. take care and always smile :0) -howcomescanada(归去来); 2005-11-6 (#2593790@0)

有这么严重吗? -guiren(你的贵人); 2005-11-6 (#2593082@0)
同感! 但感情本身就是這樣. 沒有對或錯, 只有愛或不愛. 不愛了, 就let it be吧.... 或許是我們沒有在對的時候遇上對的人而已. 日子還是得過的. 互相取暖一下:) -ming_meiling(ming); 2005-11-6 (#2593620@0)

hi, girl. you should consider urself fortunate, at least u loved. there are many out there have never experienced such passion and love. by the way, there is nothing wrong/miserible by being alone.the sky is still blue, and birds are singing. life is always, if you choose, beautiful and hopeful. -redundant(yuyu); 2005-11-6 {99} (#2593871@0)

确实, 经历本身就是一笔宝贵财富.是人生美丽一页.另外你说是运气,性格是不是也是一个因素呢?有的人的性格决定了他/她不会全情投入,所以也体会不到激情和爱. -enjoyrightnow(享受現在最重要); 2005-11-6 (#2594023@0)

No matter how painful, we have to keep going on. -kvn(孤帆远影); 2005-11-7 (#2594870@0)

Thanx all of you. I'm speakless. Thank you!! I really mean that. -yinyanchuai(helen); 2005-11-7 (#2595510@0)

有这么严重啊？分手这么恐怖吗？要楼主孤独一生吗？ -chrisa(囡囡); 2005-11-9 (#2598234@0)
Let it go and move on爱的深了，必然痛苦，因为你把希望寄托在了他人身上。你会为付出和失去而痛苦。但是我们还是要爱，因为我们天生就要付出，因为只有这样我们才能得到，至少才能珍惜得到的。放心去爱吧，如果你的心要你这样做，至少你爱过，付出过，得到过。保持一个善良的心，你会得到一个爱你的人，得到真正属于你的人。 -happy-o-happy(快乐一生); 2005-11-9 {283} (#2599990@0)
世事难测，“舍得”＝“舍”＋“得”，今天的痛苦让你知道了前者，也许明天你会感受到后者的快乐！愿快乐与你同行！！！ -lilangge(maggie); 2005-11-10 (#2600629@0)

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