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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 说说我在TORONTO的单身朋友(一--Females)
-somewhere(身为女人);
2005-12-20
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出门在外，谁都会有一些动人的故事，merry christmas
-smilodon(欠费开机);
2005-12-20
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节日快乐!! 其实最让人羡慕的是: 能倚窗而坐, 什么都不想, 什么都想起来, 让自己暂时拥有一刻完完全全属于自己的宁静.
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2005-12-21
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真是很佩服这些坚强的女人们
-orchid2004(orchid);
2005-12-21
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真是各自各精采啊！赞一把。
-table(桌子来了);
2005-12-21
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谢谢鼓励。
常常被她们的生活态度感动呢。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2005-12-21
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yeah, it is true, our women's attitude to face the world is wonderful, so proud of it.
-table(桌子来了);
2005-12-21
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日子总得过
-akiha(秋天的叶);
2005-12-21
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谢谢，读了你的文章，我想这个坛子上的男人都应该发现了一种很有前途的职业，在多伦多。。。
-galactica(掂花狂笑);
2005-12-21
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想知道..F?中应该有你自己..?呵呵...期待你的..单身朋友(二-----male)
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2005-12-21
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what a colorful life......
-armani7(刹那芳华);
2005-12-25
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微笑面对生活，即使在你难过的时候。欣赏！
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-26
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故事中的女主角们，凡是离过婚的就很难再有第二次恋爱结婚，不管是主观还是客观的原因。那么男士们是不是也如此呢？期待着楼主续篇。也真希望大家来讨论一下，这阻碍人们再恋再婚的因素到底是什么，是物质条件不够？还是固有的观念作梗？该如何努力才能使大家都能追求到幸福？其实这是一个很现实的社会科学的课题，希望那些研究移民问题的心理学家能在这方面做些工作，引导处于苦恼中的移民朋友们。
-yumig(苦恼);
2005-12-26
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也许是对爱的要求太高,也许就是根本不懂得什么是爱,
-bjmoto(Moto);
2005-12-27
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I agree.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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哎呀，过了那么多天，这帖还在顶啊。
有的人写东西是为了减压，有的人是为了自娱自乐，不是每个人都为了make friends
或探讨社会问题，特别象我这样的小女人。若然提高到“很现实的社会科学的课题”，我先引退，各位自个儿热闹吧。我看结论好了.
-somewhere(身为女人);
2005-12-27
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赫赫，对某些人来讲评论别人的帖子也是减压和自娱自乐的方法啊～～，看着，到最后，评论意见又可以写一本书了。
-havefun(havefun);
2005-12-27
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"小女人"之“小”字何解？年龄？体形or something else?
-ca000(从零开始);
2005-12-27
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"小"心眼。生气啦。嘿嘿。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2005-12-27
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别，别，你还是说你的故事好了。你不知道，你的故事无意中触发了失婚者的感慨，正象F1所说的，“在别的地方容易，在多伦多难啊。”这是一个带有共性的问题，并非只是F1一人如此，如果你的故事对失婚者们有帮助，你又何乐而不为呢？
-yumig(苦恼);
2005-12-27
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“多伦多在线”（TORCN。COM）的专栏作者，心理学家李昶博士，经常有文章发表，但他没有一个与读者联系的渠道，只是他单方面在发言，真想建议他和其他社会学家研究一下这个移民的社会问题，能对大家有所引导。
-yumig(苦恼);
2005-12-27
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这个移民的社会问题? I don't think so, because this phenomenon seems to happen only among Chinese immigants. I haven't seen immigrants of other ethnicities have this type of problems.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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加拿大 “Percentage of marriages expected to end in divorce within 30 years
in 1998: 36% ”，由此可知多少人失婚啊！失婚者再婚难，但再失婚易！
-thatiswhatilove(CityMan);
2005-12-27
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Yes, American divorce rate is 52%, while Canadian divorce rate is 1 in 3. But more than 70% divorced people do get married again, even though the second or third marriage more easily end up in divorce than the first one.But not so many Chinese have the second or third marriage, and that is the difference between Chinese and other races.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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Please give us the data before you make the conclusion.
-thatiswhatilove(CityMan);
2005-12-27
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Please go to news at www.51.ca to find it out by yourself.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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Did " www.51.ca " made the research? 51 is just a local web, they do not have enough resource do the work. Maybe you could try it?
-thatiswhatilove(CityMan);
2005-12-27
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Unfortunately, you have to read and open your eyesight by yourself, if you are not rich enough to hire a secretary. That's all I can say to you. The end of my conversation with you. Good night.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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I cannot help bursting into laughter. Of course, www.51.ca don't have the ability to do research, but they have the ability to report the result of research.If you don't believe what news say, you may need to do research by yourself.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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Also watch the Oprah Winfrey show and read Canadian newspapers to know what is going on.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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It seems that Chinese becomes afraid of marriage or even dating after divorce, while other races continue dating and marrying after divorce, so I think that is the problem with Chinese in Canada.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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赶明儿我也开个“女人心语”啊什么的专栏，听你诉心语吧。笑笑好了。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2005-12-27
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别说是再婚了，仅找个男友就够难的了
-aliceblue(aaa);
2005-12-27
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男人2/3智慧*2/3幽默*2/3有钱*2/3高大*2/3温驯*。。。具备所有以上特征的当然少
而又少，但你每减少一条，则机会大增，姑娘你愿意吗？
-thatiswhatilove(CityMan);
2005-12-27
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Actually most 姑娘 put men's financial status first, while most Chinese men in Canada don't have ideal financial status in terms of career and future.I don't think many Chinese 姑娘 care about men's dresses or faces or heights.
You will agree with me if you have a careful look at those Chinese husbands, most of whom are not good-looking at all in terms of face, height, weight and style, but they got wives.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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I think 幽默 is what most Chinese men lacks.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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Couldn't agree more ! 难道这儿很多人都是离婚的吗? 我一直觉得中国人是不轻言离婚的,尤其是女人.我佩服这些活得认真的女人.
-rosella(rosa);
2005-12-27
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Just because women don't get divorced doesn't mean they live a 认真 life, and vise versa. A 认真 life is composed of happiness and mutuality. If you don't feel happy, divorce is the way to save you from pain.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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As I read in www.51.ca, the divorce rate of Chinese immigrants is much higher than that of local Canadians, and most divorce papers have been filed by women.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-27
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因为女人们不能忍受男人的软暴力，如冷言冷语， 不理不睬， 周末逛吧喝酒，甚至和人同居， 有家不回
-kindone(此题无解);
2005-12-28
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You have some pooint there, but the news at 51 gives us a different reason which says that
Chinese women can fit in a life in Canada much better and much sooner than their men,while their men more easily feel depressed and lose their ambition, so women cannot stand their men's lack of motivation to figth for a better life in Canada, which lead to divorce.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-28
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This is the same case with Chinese divorce in America, where divorce papers are filed mostly by women as well.
-asker(asker);
2005-12-28
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