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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 孤独的我，孤独的心呐喊.....为什么让我如此呢？
-jojo082(JOJO);
2005-12-23
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好象都是这样, 一个人时间长了, 就想有人能陪陪, 说说话, 聊聊天, 但真的两个人在一起了, 却又羡慕单身贵族的生活.
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2005-12-23
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真的两个人在一起了and you both get very well along with each other, you will not 羡慕单身贵族的生活. The key is that you both really like each other's acompany, but not stay together because of loneliness.
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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:-)"both get very well along with each other" 不等于"you will not 羡慕单身贵族的生活", 时间场合心情不一样, 想法也不一样. "羡慕单身贵族的生活" 也并不是说"后悔两人在一起", 只是有感而发, 因为从两人在一起开始, 考虑问题事情时会以两个人为一个整体出发了.
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2005-12-23
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Some people stick together because they are lonely. They may not feel good with each other, but they have no other choice to kill their loneliness, so that they stay together any way,which is a chronical pain in my point of view.
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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"a chronical pain", that's what I feel since long time.
-herdsman(养牛人);
2005-12-23
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Take part in activities and make yourself busy. Finally you will forget pain.
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-23
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Honestly speaking, I do not know why it is so difficult for single people to match each other, can't they just compromise a bit to each other? What is love? Isn't love about reasonable compromise and sacrifice?
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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the reason is people are selfish, have own life style and attitude. they don't want to compromise and sacrifice.they prefer to find another one who is more match instead of trying to change him/herself. especially when men and women turn old, they have more clear idea about what they want. so they love to find the matched one not compromised one.
-wuqingjianke(jianke);
2005-12-23
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True. In other words, we may be able to say that they produce their own loneliness.
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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That's true.
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-23
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Sometimes, I have just felt amazed by the ability that people tolerate loneliness instead of making a bit compromise. Maybe, people writing or talking about their loneliness are really not that lonely,or at least they are still OK with their loneliness.
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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孤独并不可怕,可怕的是不定的心.
-wuqingjianke(jianke);
2005-12-23
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It is different from person to person.
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-23
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if somebody could "说说话, 聊聊天" with me, I will appreciate it very much. It's luxury for me now.
-herdsman(养牛人);
2005-12-23
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没那么恐怖吧? 平时你都在忙啥?
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2005-12-23
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This might be holiday syndrome. :)
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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All the time has been around my family except for work. Once being kicked out, I do feel completely lost. I know it will take time to rebuild my life, but the pain is huge.
-herdsman(养牛人);
2005-12-23
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You will be OK. Time is the best cure.
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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人就是生存在矛盾之中,累了就想找肩膀(女生的想法).你们男生呢?
-jojo082(JOJO);
2005-12-23
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男生vs女生女生想找个肩膀让她可以枕着, 得到安慰; 男生想找个避风的港湾, 在遭受挫折的挫折的时候, 能有人陪他说说话, 排解心中的郁闷, 苦恼. 其实都一样, 能有个人听听自己的宣泄, 让自己好受些.. 只是男生要表现得更坚强, 因为他的脸上写着"男人"二字.
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2005-12-24
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愿新的一年里我们不再孤独。
-herdsman(养牛人);
2005-12-23
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看到这贴子的人,如你说的新的一年不再孤独.
-jojo082(JOJO);
2005-12-23
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自己要给自己机会出去，也要给别人机会进来。
-nanshan(南山);
2005-12-23
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机会有,有些人不懂争取.
-jojo082(JOJO);
2005-12-23
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Or maybe 有些人 have not realized that there is 机会? :)
-traveller2005(traveller);
2005-12-23
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眼前,你没有去把握......呵呵
-jojo082(JOJO);
2005-12-23
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别人不争取，可能是因为别人不感到孤独。你感到孤独，所以应该是你去争取。你搞颠倒了，你感到孤独就不奇怪了
-bwt(bwt);
2005-12-23
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Come on, please try to make friends. Among them someone might make you happy.
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-23
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Do not give up.
-choice(水中花);
2005-12-23
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忙碌的我，忙碌的Rolia，忙碌的世界。忙什么呢
-xbla(我不是来XB的);
2005-12-23
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吃
-wei276(tola);
2005-12-24
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