Topic: asker说到了其它国家来的移民离婚后能很快地再恋爱再结婚，而只有我们中国来的移民失婚后往往就很难再结婚，为什么会这样？ @华人论坛:枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of

枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / asker说到了其它国家来的移民离婚后能很快地再恋爱再结婚，而只有我们中国来的移民失婚后往往就很难再结婚，为什么会这样？ -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2684819@0)

attitudes towards to marriage -lostindarkness(lostpeople); 2005-12-28 (#2685202@0)

Yeah. :) -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2684886@0)
我觉得不少。这边大概是这么一种情况。女单大部分拥有不错的工作。少部分在LABOR，但是也都是低劳动力的侍应生。男单大部分都不好，少部分有高薪，大部分在打LABOR。 -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685019@0)

Even some 女单 who do not have 不错的工作 want to date men who have 不错的工作. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2685162@0)

That is why the chance is less. Majority wants to date minority. -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685178@0)

Gee, you want rolians to beat me to death or what? :) -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2684885@0)

Because people here may not like this topic. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2685151@0)

You are right. They like the content. -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685161@0)

Gee. Do you understand what I am talking about? I mean they do not like this topic. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2685164@0)

I know. Even they do not like this topic but if you have a convincing content, they will agree. Forget the topic, let us convince them. -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685174@0)

One I know is from Ukrain with her husband. She got married several months after she arrived in Canada, then diviorced later on; and now she got the third marriage, and is as happy as before. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2684889@0)

Oops, no, not with her husband, but with her father. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2684893@0)

what? She got married with her faxxxx, It is not allowed! -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685014@0)

Gee. I said she came to Canada with her father, and then got married after she landed in Toronto several months . -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2685158@0)

That is one of the reason I complained about your English wording. -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-28 (#2685166@0)

Her first husband is a taxi driver, and the second one is a construciton worker, and current one is working in a meat processing factory. She is working in a retail store.I wonder how many Chinese women can marry men who have same jobs as her ex and current husbands.

An interesting phenomenon that I have noticed is that Chinese women, who even have a labour job, don't seem to like men who are labourers as well. That might be one of the reasons that Chinese have difficulty to getting married again. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 {335} (#2684903@0)

Wonder: Why keep getting divorced and getting married, not tired at all? -clearicewater(sleepy); 2005-12-28 (#2684963@0)

I think she doesn't like getting married, then divorced and then married either, but she just wants to find an ideal husband. Some men are good before getting married, while changed afterwards. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 (#2685167@0)
I kind of admire her, because her heart of pursuing a happy marriage is pretty much alive, and she doesn't feel frustrated or scared by several divorces,while some Chinese drop their happily-ever-after dream after just one divorce.

My point is that we should have this type of enthusiasm for our life. -asker(asker); 2005-12-28 {151} (#2685176@0)

我经常听说南美人的故事，很多都是登陆不到几个星期就离婚的，有一个居然下了飞机就再也找不到老婆了，笑死，不过还是要同情一下当事人 -kent932(Pilot); 2005-12-28 (#2685030@0)
我周围的朋友离了婚的很快又结婚了, 而未婚的不那么容易结婚. -crystal_clear(水晶心); 2005-12-30 (#2687672@0)

The reason might be that those never-married mostly like to marry or date never-married, especially on girls' part, while those divorced have a more expansive choice,meaning they are willing to marry unmarried and divorced. -asker(asker); 2005-12-30 {57} (#2687851@0)
To me, divorced or never-married doesn't matter, as long as the person is legally single and has a good heart and profound sense of humour. -asker(asker); 2005-12-30 (#2687854@0)

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