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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 为什么这里的国女过分自信?
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-2
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讨论完了"国男", 又来了"国女", 灌水的确是乐此不疲啊.
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2006-1-2
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这样看来国妖自信程度刚好。
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2006-1-2
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这自信不自信还分性别呀。糊涂了
-once(chocolate);
2006-1-3
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这话说的，有自信好啊。你可以认为她是无知幼稚，如果你看不惯。关键是你缺乏自信，要努力啊
-bwt(bwt);
2006-1-3
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什么时候女人真正做回啦女人, 这个世界会PP100倍.
-talkluantalk(你说我说);
2006-1-3
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什么时候 can Chinese men 真正做回啦 men in Canada?
-asker(asker);
2006-1-4
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不明白，你可不可以解释什么是 "men in canada"
-lostindarkness(lostpeople);
2006-1-4
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Sorry I can't.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-4
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Because I am pretty much sure you have your own definition. To save a waste of your time and my time. Find the answer by yourself.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-4
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does this mean you have not met the man you are looking for? :)
-lostindarkness(lostpeople);
2006-1-4
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What do you think? Do you have any answer?
-asker(asker);
2006-1-5
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my guess is NO, am I right?
-lostindarkness(lostpeople);
2006-1-5
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Do you think you are right?
-asker(asker);
2006-1-5
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I think I am right.
-lostindarkness(lostpeople);
2006-1-5
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you guys had a very good conversation
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-5
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:)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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因为无论多丑，都有人捧臭脚，所以。。
-toe(傻根);
2006-1-5
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不会把，那里的男人都。。。
-may2002beijing(may2002beijing);
2006-1-5
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是阿，这里的男人好像都几辈子没见过女人一样。
-toe(傻根);
2006-1-7
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ha...
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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因为男人都太丑了
-may2002beijing(may2002beijing);
2006-1-5
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哈哈。。。你怎么知道的呢？
-once(chocolate);
2006-1-7
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丑？？你怎么知道？你又没见过，再说了，嘿嘿，你漂亮么？
-hornhorse(爱泡妞的河马);
2006-1-7
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她很漂亮：）
-once(chocolate);
2006-1-7
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你怎么知道，一般比较狠毒的女人都比较漂亮，不过，人丑也不是罪过，嘿嘿
-hornhorse(爱泡妞的河马);
2006-1-7
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俺坚信这世界上没有丑人，只有你有一颗善良的心，丑也是美丽的。。。喊口号呢：）
-once(chocolate);
2006-1-7
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是啊，丑就是丑嘛，干吗非要好看？臭豆腐臭不臭，好多人还是喜欢吃嘛！
-hornhorse(爱泡妞的河马);
2006-1-7
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I believe that internal and external beauty both are equally important. Some Chinese women, especially from Mainland China, may need improvement in internal beauty or image.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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...need improvement in external beauty....
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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you probably need that more than anyone else.
-mjq32(枫叶蘅芜(他));
2006-1-7
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Haven't you heard that beautiful women need much much more maintenance and improvement than others? Haven't you heard any beautiful women don't wear any make-ups? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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Have you heard any beautiful women don't wear any make-ups?
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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hehe,women who are too sharp, too intelligent scare men off.
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-1-8
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Not really. We may scare away some men, but absolutely not all of them. Trust me. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-8
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没听说过“丑妻近地是福”这句话么？
-howcomescanada(归去来);
2006-1-7
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Like Zhuge Liang's wife. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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是盲目自信，等她们到40岁后就知道了。
-mjq32(枫叶蘅芜(他));
2006-1-7
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自信 has nothing to do with age.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-7
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Absolutely RIGHT.
-bookworm(晕晕);
2006-1-7
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太过自信容易发展成自傲，自傲就不可爱了，因为愚蠢的错误很容易在人
骄傲的时候发生，自以为自己什么都是对的，其实都是错的，真好笑！
-sunshineii(蜻蜓);
2006-1-7
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What are you talking about? 真好笑！
-bookworm(晕晕);
2006-1-7
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这还不明白，女人过份自信当然不好了，什么事情都不能过份！我还是觉得谦逊的女孩
更可爱！虽然这样的女人越来越少了！越来越不吃香了！还不明白？
-sunshineii(蜻蜓);
2006-1-7
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We are talking about 自信, not 过份自信. 自信 and 谦逊 are inclusive to each other. Premier Zhou En Lai was 自信 as well as 谦逊, I think some people misunderstand or mistake 自信 as "aggression".
-asker(asker);
2006-1-8
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Thank you for explaining. :)
-bookworm(晕晕);
2006-1-8
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自信 is confidence, not aggression.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-8
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个人感觉这里优秀男的多些, 而女的相对要少. 再有就是国女在这里多了一条选择 - 找烂老外.
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-8
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找烂老外? What do you mean by "烂老外"? :) I have never heard any of my friends get married to some drug users, drunkard or unemployed.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-10
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my bad. 再有就是国女在这里多了一条选择 - 找hao老外
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-10
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By 这里 in 这里优秀男的多些, do you mean at Rolia or in Canada? In my view, most Chinese men are 优秀 intellectually, but not necessarily characteristically.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-10
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高IQ低EQ．
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-10
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"not characteristically", do you mean comparing with hao老外?
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-10
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自己找不到老外， 就说别人找的都是烂老外， Typical Chinese Sour Grape 增强自己自信心的常用方法．
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-10
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Thank you for your comments. But, honestly, I have never though of that.
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-10
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Welcome! If you don't have such thoughts then please don't copy others by saying '再有就是国女在这里多了一条选择 - 找烂老外. '
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-10
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I didn't copy anything. That's my own.
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-10
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真正优秀的本地人是不找外来妹的. 比如我就没有看到年薪15万以上的本地人找女国移. 当然, 烂也谈不上. 但是不优秀是真的.我们在国内, 不都是百万富翁嘛, 来了这里
, 除以6.
-xyz0001(多情应笑我);
2006-1-10
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自己没自信, 就说别人太自信. -- Typical Chinese Style Sour Grapes.
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-9
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倒过来说? 哈哈...
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-9
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are you alright?
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-9
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Of course. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-9
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Absolutely. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-1-9
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自信不是别人说无就无, 自己说有就有滴.
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-9
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Right. But sometimes, in others' eyes, one is confident, while in his/her own eyes, he/she is not.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-10
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自信的人温柔谦卑.自信的人温柔谦卑, 自信的人知道自己的长处与缺处, 能够扬长避短, 态度积极. 能够欣赏别人的成功与优点, 并且勇于承认错误. 自信的人成功的时候能够保持清醒头脑, 知道自己是谁; 失败或遇到困难的时候不会灰心丧气, 一蹶不振.
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-1-9
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Definitely, They don't push their beloved around, and they are always there for their families.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-9
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Who are they?
-sunding(sundin);
2006-1-9
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By "They", I mean those confident women.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-10
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So, you are talking about confidence, not over confidence. Thank you for your explaination
-sunshineii(蜻蜓);
2006-1-9
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I don't think there is over-confidence. Confidence is confidence, while over-confidence is not confidence but sometimes self-disrespect.
-asker(asker);
2006-1-10
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女人的胆子比男人大. 你说国男绝无找个老外的. 比如说没有找个越南女, 日本女(性上肯定不是问题了吧?), 因为男人在异地不喜欢不了解的人. 也不喜欢冒险. 在国内就有国男找白俄, 越南妹的
-xyz0001(多情应笑我);
2006-1-10
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That's exactly what you say!
-chenmoon(话就怕说大);
2006-1-17
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