Topic: a pretty lady is looking for a life partner , seriously only @华人论坛:枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of

枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / a pretty lady is looking for a life partner , seriously only江南小女子, 良好教育，温柔，善良，美丽，气质好，身材匀称，170cm, 国外生活十余年，时尚，高品质生活。如果你是一个正直，有爱心，善良，有事业，条件相当的好男人( 35- 46 old , 176 cm 以上），请email 我 at tcsheryl@yahoo.ca -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 {218} (#2917863@0)

"高品质生活" = high maintenance girl ...... -pig.head(好好学習天天能上); 2006-4-20 (#2917865@0)
everybody has the right to seek the dream whatever it might be. -dummy(快乐单身); 2006-4-20 (#2917886@0)

I just cannot help wondering what kind of dream people can seek at Rolia in terms of love. -asker(asker); 2006-4-20 (#2917964@0)

you can keep wondering forever and they will keep seeking their dreams. -dummy(快乐单身); 2006-4-20 (#2917984@0)

Good answer. :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-20 (#2917986@0)

Have you ever tried other bbs instead of Rolia, sister? Good luck. -asker(asker); 2006-4-20 (#2917982@0)

i kinda sympathize her. -dummy(快乐单身); 2006-4-20 (#2918002@0)

人家楼主mm条件那么好，你sympathize个啥呀 -pig.head(好好学習天天能上); 2006-4-20 (#2918070@0)

I sympathize her coz her condition might be too good so that she couldn't find any gentlemen to match for her although she has tried so hard. -dummy(快乐单身); 2006-4-20 (#2918111@0)

"Too good" is NOT good. Sad but true. -asker(asker); 2006-4-21 (#2919086@0)

a little wired. -chineserefugee(大陆难民); 2006-4-20 (#2918029@0)
42岁了就不要自称小女子了，会引起误解的。 -tianyalangzi(天涯浪子); 2006-4-20 (#2918133@0)

how do you know i am 42 , i think you are around 25 ? -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 (#2918139@0)

下午有人转贴了你在51的广告，那里显示你是65年出生的，所以推算你是42岁。江南小女子形容30岁以下女子比较合适。#2917274 -tianyalangzi(天涯浪子); 2006-4-20 (#2918174@0)

i didn't post any ad on the 51, sorry , it might have mistake there -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 (#2918188@0)

“65年出生,高170 cm，有教养，受过良好教育，温柔，体贴，乐观，重家庭，工作稳定，希望你是有教养，体贴，有责任心，40左右，有稳定工作，有诚者，Email：tcsheryl@yahoo.ca.请附照。”或许你朋友帮你贴的？ -tianyalangzi(天涯浪子); 2006-4-20 (#2918199@0)

i know you are too young for me, i am older than you anyway -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 (#2918229@0)

哈哈哈 -tianyalangzi(天涯浪子); 2006-4-20 (#2918261@0)

不知所为, SHIT. -nofrill(domain); 2006-4-21 (#2918546@0)

I dont think you are honest. The post comes same contact info as you have in here, why don't you deny it was not about you? -butwhy(Why); 2006-4-21 (#2919134@0)

why don't you deny it was not about you???????????????????? -double07(望贴兴叹); 2006-4-21 (#2919203@0)

"why did you deny it was from you? "-- HAHA -butwhy(Why); 2006-4-21 (#2919696@0)

I though you are good when I saw your post, but don't think this way anymore... why are you not confident of yourself... age is a problem but not a barrier forever! -butwhy(Why); 2006-4-21 (#2919143@0)

how do you know? Do you know me?how do you know i am 42 , i think you are only 25 , am i right? -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 {63} (#2918147@0)

好心提醒一句，去yahoo交友网站，SINA北美交友网站会比ROLIA更有效。 -tianyalangzi(天涯浪子); 2006-4-20 (#2918210@0)

虽然你很年轻，但是你很有修养，很明白事理，不错的人才 -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 (#2918294@0)

人家把你老底都揭了，你还夸他？ -objectspace(New File Sys); 2006-4-20 (#2918349@0)

我觉得人要心理年轻是最重要，挖苦别人，损别人来取乐是不尊重自己 -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 (#2918376@0)

说的好~~ -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-21 (#2920508@0)

在小男人面前，称自己是小女子的确不合适。 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-21 (#2920504@0)

guys, drop it please, leave her alone. Look the mass here. -dummy(快乐单身); 2006-4-20 (#2918148@0)

do u mean "mess"? -pig.head(好好学習天天能上); 2006-4-20 (#2918176@0)
sorrySorry , i came to the wrong place. -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-20 {34} (#2918178@0)

别这么面子薄，大家都是开玩笑逗乐子的。没必要介意，在这儿要大义凛然才行 -zheyi(半窗月); 2006-4-20 (#2918253@0)

如有人逗你老婆玩笑,你就不会大义凛然吧? -tcsheryl66(sheryl); 2006-4-21 (#2918468@0)

没问题。既然来这就不怕逗。 -zheyi(半窗月); 2006-4-21 (#2918573@0)

take it easy and good luck -sleepyman(sleepyman); 2006-4-20 (#2918280@0)

You may make your life a bit easier in love hunting, if you do not mention this "时尚，高品质生活" at all. Some guys cannot stand it. On the other hand, is your personality 时尚 and 高品质 as well? -asker(asker); 2006-4-21 (#2919102@0)

Unfortunately, most guys who are have a 时尚，高品质生活 only want girls who are around 20 or early 30 instead of 40. Age is indeed your barrier, accept it or not. -asker(asker); 2006-4-21 (#2919105@0)

..who have.. -asker(asker); 2006-4-21 (#2919110@0)

说得对，加拿大男国移都是土了八叽的，有几个是懂时尚，享受高品质生活的啊？原来不土的到这里也变土了 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-21 {24} (#2920518@0)

是呀，没钱去泡吧，没事只能猫家里刷网，能不土吗。 -chineserefugee(大陆难民); 2006-4-22 (#2920574@0)

The point is that some of them can afford it, but they choose not to while dating girls. A cup of coffee or a movie doesn't cost a guy much, does it? A illegal Portuguese construction work can do it,while a professional Chinese guy can not?

In my view, it has nothing to do with how much money you have, but what your attitude toward life is. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 {146} (#2921067@0)

An illegal... -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921072@0)

这句话我爱听，生活态度真的很重要，快乐不快乐就取决于此。顺便提醒一下哥哥弟弟，就是请客咖啡也是太吝啬了，至少也请顿饭吧，最好别去卖当劳哦 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-22 {80} (#2921156@0)

subway档次高一点，这样才不失大体 -zheyi(半窗月); 2006-4-22 (#2921166@0)

不会吧，subway也去？ -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-22 (#2921270@0)

To them, the point is not 档次, but how to save money, even one dollar. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921956@0)

How many Chinese professionals go to subway for lunch instead of bringing their own food for work? To most Chinese immigrants, single or married, saving money is the No. 1 task. Even subway is too expensive to them. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2922001@0)

You guys are all wealthy. To a refugee from China like me, it is really expensive to go to subway this kind of store. The expense once there, almost live half a month for one person in my hometown.Could u save that money to support 希望工程? -chineserefugee(大陆难民); 2006-4-22 {45} (#2922182@0)

I used to donate to 希望工程, but not any more, because I try not to support those corruptive Chinese officers. Instead, I donated my stuff to the Salvation Army or the Goodwill Stores. -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2922634@0)
Anyway, I do not think anyone at Rolia is literally wealthy just because he/she can afford subway lunch. :) The difference is that some people think of saving money as happy, while others saving time. -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2922637@0)

saving time and have a social life -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2922638@0)

看来我们对高品质时尚生活的界定不同，喝咖啡看电影就高品质了? 那恐怕中国大城市80%以上的人都高品质并时尚了。我觉得，高品质并且时尚的生活最最基本的是有经济基础。恐怕加拿大这种地方7，8万年薪也顶多小康水平，离高品质恐怕查不少吧。 -chineserefugee(大陆难民); 2006-4-22 {66} (#2921681@0)

Sorry but I think you do not understand what I am talking about. I am not defning what is 高品质时尚生活, but specify a phenomenon that is popular among some Chinese guys, which is that they choose to save moneyby even refusing to pay for a cup of coffee while dating. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 {57} (#2921977@0)
For example, I believe you can afford a cup of coffee, but you choose to 没事只能猫家里刷网. :) Many construction workers do not have personal computers at home, but they go to bars or cafe to have a social life. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921991@0)

:))))) -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921074@0)
40＋懂时尚，享受高品质生活的男士早就结婚了。 -lotustears(心想事成旺旺旺); 2006-4-22 (#2921098@0)

If they are not married or divorced, they prefer younger women instead of 40 year old, in general. -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921104@0)

你没看清楚，姐姐人家自己生活时尚，但却没有要求对方也那样所以找一个土了八几的改造一下就好了，那没有什么不可能的。 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-22 {56} (#2921159@0)

Do you think a low-wage labourer will respond to her without consideration of her 生活时尚? Obviously, you are not a woman. Women do not speak the same language as straightforward as you guys. :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-22 (#2921966@0)

姐姐不是这样的人，这点我知道。我打labor的时候也追求浪漫的呀。 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-23 (#2923785@0)

Gee, haven't you got my point yet or what? :) My point is that whether she means it or not doesn't matter, what matters is how readers of her post perceive it. In other words,even if she does not mean it, some readers may think she does. Sometimes what writers mean is different from what readers perceive. -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 {131} (#2923913@0)
Such as..? :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2923916@0)

I mean how you 追求浪漫. :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2923917@0)

what to know? take a look at your PM；） -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-23 (#2923993@0)

Gee. :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2924001@0)

阳光灿烂的labor日子 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-23 (#2924026@0)

I feel sad that you both didn't end up together. What a pity. -asker(asker); 2006-4-23 (#2924076@0)

爱是一种感觉不是每份爱都有结果 -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-24 {18} (#2924699@0)

True, but it seems that more sad stories happen to the relationship between women in better financial status and men in worse financial status. -asker(asker); 2006-4-24 (#2924705@0)

I was not sad. I really enjoy the gift of torture the life brings me. when you feel painful, you realize you are alive.painful and joyful:) -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-24 {20} (#2925584@0)

很好啊？还不快伊妹儿 -zhang1081(熊猫^@Q@^怀旧中); 2006-4-22 {12} (#2921127@0)
对以上所有讥笑别人用‘小’的人：如果你不是刚刚出生的婴儿，你又有什么资格嘲笑人家42岁用‘小’字呢？大小原本就是一个相对的概念， 42岁，对于42岁以下的人是大，而相对42岁以上的都算是小，只要她不是世界上年龄最大的人，说小就没什么不可思议的。

至于这些因为自己年轻，就嘲笑别人用’小‘的人，你难道以为自己小吗，对于学龄前的小朋友，他们一样叫你们叔叔阿姨。

再老的人，他们也曾年轻过，再年轻的人，也不会有两个20岁，如果因为自己年轻而讥笑比自己年长的人，那么只能证明一点，你除了年纪青，其他一无是处。

尊重别人，才会受人尊重，如果你都20多岁还不懂这个道理，那真是白活了。 -stone2003(stone2003); 2006-4-23 {484} (#2923442@0)

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