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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 第一次见面, 请GG喝咖啡...看到了楼下有关的贴. 记得有一次和网上认识的一个GG出去, 他叫我买咖啡给他喝...
你们是怎么看的?
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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(#3089150@0)
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一看就是你挖的坑。如果他要求就不对了，如果你说请喝咖啡，然后请他就正常。
-richard100(冬青);
2006-7-19
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不是有意挖的. 也是两年前的事情了.
我没说请他. 以前在网上交谈过几次.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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咖啡才1元一杯,1元钱认识一个人也值得.
-pinkcloudy(pinkcloudy);
2006-7-19
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那你觉得MM和GG第一次见面出去干什么呢?
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
(#3089183@0)
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你就当他是开玩笑,要你请喝咖啡. 你实在想不通这1元钱, 就再开玩笑问他要回来.
-pinkcloudy(pinkcloudy);
2006-7-19
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我可没这么脸皮厚.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
(#3089215@0)
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那就不要耿耿于怀了,不就1元钱嘛
-pinkcloudy(pinkcloudy);
2006-7-19
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没耿耿于怀.
就是挖个话题.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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不说明什么。请人喝咖啡和吃饭太正常了，有人请我，我也就大方白吃了，最多只会说声谢谢。有时候顺便敲竹杠，没什么内疚的。
-lovenature(BlackBear);
2006-7-19
(#3089209@0)
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恩, 我本来也觉得正常. 也白吃过, 也请人吃过.
其实我觉得如果是好朋友的话, 都无所谓. 上次一个好朋友GG从WATERLOO来, 就是我招待他的.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
(#3089217@0)
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k! 伍岭刀GG还不够热闹,又来了个艺苑妹?
-eagle_no1(瞎起哄);
2006-7-19
(#3089238@0)
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算是挖, 但绝对是我真实碰到的.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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好吧。帮你挖一把： 喝了咖啡后你们又干了什么？ 他请你吃饭了没有？ 花了50＄没？后来摸了你的衣领没有？
-eagle_no1(瞎起哄);
2006-7-19
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没有.
和好几个GG见过面.
但都觉得没什么意思. 难道好朋友关系不能维持吗?
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
(#3089282@0)
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that's for small fun, or is a small test for your personality. it is not about money, even for money wise, it is less than a TTC ticke. It is the best case.for worst case, he is so cheap for asking for 1.xx CAD advantage.
-647i(流浪的步行万里);
2006-7-19
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(#3089259@0)
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以前听过一个montreal的MM和我说，在montreal,是要MM给GG买咖啡的，只是GG大多请吃晚饭作为回报。买了就消失了，，好像有点没风度
-dpmm(扑向火焰的飞蛾);
2006-7-19
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small fun cannot be measured by a cup of coffee. I do not mind inviting a man to Tim Hortons.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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ive never heard of it.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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well..it said in Montreal.single women is much more than single men.in some case women like to show some kind postive atitute.But i belive in toronto,lady son;t have to.:-)
-dpmm(扑向火焰的飞蛾);
2006-7-19
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Don't overthink. It's just a coffee. I doubt any man would be so low to take such a small advantage of a woman! I say, just enjoy & have fun, doesn't matter if it's a stranger or an old friend, right?
-super_unknown(mailman);
2006-7-19
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No idea.
国内的GG好象都很照顾MM. 这里我没这个感觉.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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I can't comment on your general impression toward Chinese men here. Speaking of this particular case, most likely it was just friendly teasing coz a cup of cofee is so small, nobody would really care.It's also fun coz it's different to what people usually expect.
My suggestion, don't take life too seriously, my friend.
-super_unknown(mailman);
2006-7-19
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she didn't take serious.but she still little women,and have right seek for caring,doesn't she?
-dpmm(扑向火焰的飞蛾);
2006-7-19
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Of course, she has the right. And wish ashdust MM good luck. :-) TBH, I usually buy the first dinner when I meet an MM, regardless it's a date or not. But if it's a group of MMs, then it's a different story, hehe.
-super_unknown(mailman);
2006-7-19
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right...i never pay a group girls as well....unless multiple wives allowed.：-）
-dpmm(扑向火焰的飞蛾);
2006-7-19
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Hehe. Funny thing.
Actually I prefer a spontaneous action. If it is for friendship, it doesnt matter who pays the bill.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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well, just propose a topic here, and it really happened on me before. Actually I forgot it long ago. Just the post previously posted here a few days ago reminded me of this trivial matter.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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就是因为咖啡便宜， 要你请没有心理负担。呵呵。我觉得开玩笑的成分多。
-deepblue(刘姥姥);
2006-7-19
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那天不是APRIL FOOLS DAY
也没必要这么开玩笑吧.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
(#3090138@0)
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有可能真是人与人性格不同,你觉得男方让女方第一次见面请喝咖啡不可理喻,但说实话,我就完全可能开这种玩笑 :-), 因为honestly it's nothing,我以为没有任何人会在意.
-super_unknown(mailman);
2006-7-20
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估计那哥们开玩笑的火侯不够,并没有真正和你聊熟了,逗得你发笑,大家消除了陌生感的情况下,就贸贸然提出让你请客,这样的话就难免显得有些生硬,没有技巧,说到底还是两人没有click,仅此而已
-super_unknown(mailman);
2006-7-20
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我会觉得这男的很无耻
-zheyi(葱花小油饼);
2006-7-19
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我也不知道. 其实都是自己的决定. 自己觉得想请, 那就请. 自己不想, 那就算数. 我也不管别人怎么想. 只要自己开心就可以, 同时也不要伤害别人.
-ashdust(ash);
2006-7-19
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GG都是大钞，不方便。
-fromeastowest(避风塘炒蟹);
2006-7-20
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