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枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 结了婚却不带婚戒的人, 无论男人或女人, 都有婚外恋的倾向. 要不然, 干嘛不大大方方昭示天下自己已婚的身份? 只要婚书还在手, 加上没有工作环境的限制, 都不能例外. : )
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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pregnant women不算
-genie(还行);
2006-10-13
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Why? As long as she is married, she is supposed to wear the ring too. Here is Canada so mother could be single. : )
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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seems that you don't know much about pregnant women. we can get so swollen, even with the fingers, to the point that we can't wear the ring any more.
-genie(还行);
2006-10-13
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Ok. So pregnant women are exceptional as well as those who can't wear it in working. I really BS those who can do it but not.
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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You needn't speak it out, please show some RESPECT to people and yourself.
-davidchencaro(david chen);
2006-10-14
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俺不戴, 别人问, 如实说了, 没钱, 买不起戒指, 也不兴这个, 行不?
-lnscys(lnscys);
2006-10-13
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Cheating. : ) Real wedding ring is not that expensive.
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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real good ones can be so expensive!!!
-genie(还行);
2006-10-13
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Wedding ring is to show the commitment to marriage but not the wealth of your family.If you can afford to buy expensive one, go get it; if not, cheap one is ok too, right? I don't believe there is someone having no ring for the wedding.
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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well, that's true. you can always find one if you really want. what i was trying to say is that real wedding rings can be expensive. i don't think you should generalize that 'real wedding ring is not that expensive'.
-genie(还行);
2006-10-13
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hehe. I really have no concept about the price of it. .My married friends usually have pretty expensive diamond rings for engagement and relatively cheaper and simple-style ones for wedding which represent the marrige in my opinion.
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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便宜的, 戴不出去; 贵的, 买不起, 不如不戴. 俺爸俺妈没有戒指, 不也一样恩恩爱爱一辈子?
-lnscys(lnscys);
2006-10-13
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??? 婚戒戴不出去?
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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怪俺没讲清楚. 根本就没买, 考虑的就是上面说的原因. 再次的也要一百多, 不值那个钱. 做点什么别的不好, 小俩口出去乡下住一天MOTEL, 拍拍照片, 都会积累成日后美好的回忆.
-lnscys(lnscys);
2006-10-13
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带孩子太忙, 忘记了.每天早晨跟打仗一样.
-kwcava(kwcava);
2006-10-13
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婚戒又不是法律规定要带的,随个人喜好了,说明不了什么.
-lazycat(寂寞的灵魂);
2006-10-13
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You are right. But I am not talking about the law thing. Tradition still means something to most of people, right?
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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whose tradition?我觉得婚戒跟婚外恋的倾向之间没有联系
-lazycat(寂寞的灵魂);
2006-10-13
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是呀, 婚戒本来就不是咱们中国人的传统.
-lnscys(lnscys);
2006-10-13
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结了婚的女人不随丈夫姓，都有强烈的改嫁倾向。要不然, 干嘛不大大方方昭示天下自己的名字“张王氏”，“吴李氏”? 只要婚书还在手, 加上加入主流社会的愿望, 都不能例外.:D
-pingyangtiger(平阳虎);
2006-10-13
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结了婚的男人不随妻姓的呢？都有强烈的改娶倾向？
-cathy345(雁河东);
2006-10-14
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你这话说的,结婚戴戒只,根本就不是中国人的习惯,你看老一辈的谁戴了,难道都是有婚外恋倾向??我就不戴,这有什么.
-cool_guy(cool guy);
2006-10-13
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不会吧?中国老一辈人结婚不也会给新媳妇置办首饰?
-refreshing(memory);
2006-10-13
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那也是有钱人家的. 戒指并不是结婚必须的东西.
-lnscys(lnscys);
2006-10-13
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你说中国来的吗?结婚戴介指根本就不是中国传统啊,原来谁戴啊?
-cool_guy(cool guy);
2006-10-13
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中国古代也是有婚戒的，到五十年代后因为怕被打成小资产阶级所以谁也不敢戴了。
-sinbad(Seven Seas);
2006-10-14
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小题大做我是到了40岁生日才开始带29岁买的金嘎子，因为到了一枝花盛开的年纪liao，免得上海不知情人家的感情
-remember_me_not(r-m-n);
2006-10-13
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为什么把外国人的习惯当成金科玉律呢？外国人结婚了还随夫姓呢，你做到了？典型的文化自卑心里
-zheyi(正弦音叉);
2006-10-13
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而且现在越来越多的外国妇女结婚也已不再改姓，尤其是中上层的
-genie(还行);
2006-10-14
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This is becoming a trend beyond middle- or upper-middle-class because of the high divorce rate.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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你是CBC还是外国人啊？啧啧，这中文写得可真顺溜，要不看你说的内容还当你是中国来的呢
-heeltoe(不過三);
2006-10-13
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扯淡，婚外恋的才不在乎别人知道自己已婚。
-rockywei(落基山);
2006-10-13
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你最后加个:) 是什么意思？
-earthcitizen(地球公民);
2006-10-14
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那个:)的意思是, 他自己知道这帖是个房子的地基, 上面需要垒砖头. :D
-firefox(火狐之平淡是真);
2006-10-14
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我看以后这种加:)的贴一律要封杀。。。
-earthcitizen(地球公民);
2006-10-14
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喝了两天加拿大的硬化水就忘了自己爹妈那时候戴不戴戒指了?
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-10-14
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说得好。
-cathy345(雁河东);
2006-10-14
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喝了两天加拿大硬化水就忘了爹妈那时候是不是开汽车上班，住不住花园洋房，是不是满嘴洋文了？
-sinbad(Seven Seas);
2006-10-14
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Married for 18 yrs, never had 婚戒, never had 婚外恋, so does my wife. period.
-wind_det(Wind_det);
2006-10-14
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See, what matters is Heart, indeed. :)
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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老外也不一定戴的。有时手大了，要换个手指，等等。
-cathy345(雁河东);
2006-10-14
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Some people do not wear wedding rings for religious reasons such as one of my friends who and whose husband are both of Sikh background.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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Ironically, some couples in common-law relationships are wearing wedding rings (even though they are not legally married at all) such as another friend of mine who has been living with a man for 13 yearsand have 3 children.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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I myself may not wear wedding ring, cause to me, what matters is Heart. But that will definitely break my mom's heart.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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She inherited the ring from my grandma, which will naturally comes to me. My mom's great grandma was the first woman in her clan wearing wedding ring due to her husband's persistence.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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I mean the western-style wedding ring.
-asker(amour);
2006-10-14
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