not sure what the guy did wrong. he just invited a female friend to attend his ex-girlfriend's wedding -- as simple as we take someone to a company Christmas party. the "female" friend thinks too much and has too much fantasy. he should not driveafter consuming too much alcohol. but it is the girl's own stupidity led her to get in the passenger seat with such an irresponsible guy.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2009-8-7{138}(#5469277@0)
There is nothing wrong in both parties...but once a girl loves a man...she always tend to think too much and be sensetive...she just felt hurt after the party...I understand her feelings...because we are women....
-poisonrose(Rosemary);
2009-8-7{24}(#5469313@0)
You mean that woman was born to be foolish?
-bigbread(匹格);
2009-8-7(#5469332@0)
no...only when a woman falls in love....
-poisonrose(Rosemary);
2009-8-7(#5469337@0)
I thought the first rule of "relationship101" is that love must be mutual or reciprocal. emotional attachment of the nature of "one way street" either creates stalkers or crying babies because it deprives us of our sound judgement and sanity.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2009-8-7(#5469355@0)
Well the guy’s simply giving the girl wrong signals – if we call the girl you take to company Xmas party as your “significant other”, as said on the invitation, isn’t the girl you take to your ex’ wedding even more significant?
-uptowngirl(若初 Bella Luna);
2009-8-7(#5469369@0)
well said....:)
-poisonrose(Rosemary);
2009-8-7(#5469374@0)
since when we started flagging the person we take to company Christmas party our "significant other"? and, should a mature woman undergo some kind of emotional turbulence just because of some dubious "signal"? I know30 yrs ago you have to commit yourself to someone if you dare to hold that person's hands -- but I thought we now live in a modern, open, and free society, am I wrong?
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2009-8-7{168}(#5469390@0)
if you read the invitation emails your company HR sent out for Xmas party, the person you take with you to the event, is supposed to be your "significant other". well, if she's not that person, better not to - especially you know she's falling for u
-uptowngirl(若初 Bella Luna);
2009-8-7(#5469501@0)
wow, I did not know corporate HR is also in charge of "match-making" (just joking). actually, I think it is a matter of corporate culture. on our invitation it is simply "guest". andI was asked by co-workers to be their date at the party if I have no other committement.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2009-8-7{88}(#5469593@0)
agree. just people are different. better know your friends and don't cross the border or you can choice to just stay as friends with the ones who are similiar to you. btw, welcome back :)
-171399(newID);
2009-8-7(#5469545@0)